I had never really thought about BDSM until I decided to actively read about it. I always felt there was something unexplored there. I knew I loved vanilla spanking and choking but I was never fully …
Category: Sex Research
Research on sex
Did any of you read the recent Kenyan story about the wife who reported her husband to her village men for being uncircumcised? There was a video to boot. We women can be dangerous when crossed …
Being amazingly beautiful is something that comes to many African women. Being one as well as someone whose work day gets stalled by the beauty of these women I feel I can testify to this. One thing …
Last friday night I engaged in unrestricted conversation with a group of people under the influence of bonfire, alcohol, dance, sweat and motley humans. Among them was an English man and his gorgeous 21 years …
Awkward! At least that’s how this situation felt. Dude was a total hunk and I was hot for him even before first date. I might not have spoken to him enough to get into his head. …
I was sitting at the airport,jittery. Trying to reach customer care on my phone; bunch of c#%zies wouldn’t pick. My book wasn’t helping keep me busy. Then these two young men next to me, an American …
Consequences, or the troubles of Mr Thomas Hughes[1] My Hughes has put a woman in the family way. And things were about to get nasty. This world of ours is one of Consequences. In view of …
As seen here: The #solidarityisforwhitewomen conversation about digital feminism and inclusion has made it clear that more publications need to create opportunities for feminists of colour to share their perspectives. To help create some of that much-needed, inclusive …
We are used to thinking of love letters as very private things. After all, it’s the expression of one person’s love (an emotional and, therefore, a subjective state) to another. But can love letters also tell …
For the past couple of weeks, I have been asking my friends that particular question during our conversations about sex. Now, when I ask that question I’m not talking about the act of sex in general. …