If this world made sense, I’d probably always walk around without a shirt. I’ve known this since I was old enough to take off my own clothes. I enjoy the feel of my skin against my …
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By Billy Hani Fingering is often viewed as ‘less than’ in terms of penetrative sex. Due to heterosexual norms, ‘penetrative sex’ is only seen to be valid when it involves a penis. Otherwise, it is simply …
In 2019, I said to my BFFFL Malaka Grant, “I want us to organise a festival on sex and sexualities”, and in November that year, with the support of so many incredible African feminists, we pulled …
Like with any relationship, monogamous or not, safety is a big thing that needs careful attention and thought. The responsibility to maintain safety increases when you are intimately involved with more than one person; simply …
Written by Naomi Despite Kewa being the hottest woman alive, she also got on my nerves a lot. She wasn’t very accountable for the things she said and when I brought them up, I was suddenly …
For you. I do this for you. Because I want to please you. Because your pleasure is mine too. Because your pleasure is a gift you give me; a sacred token I dare not refuse, lest …
(Content Warning: sexual assault & rape) “The profoundest instinct in man is to war against the truth; that is, against the Real. He shuns facts from his infancy. His life is a perpetual evasion. Miracle, chimera …
Non-monogamy has been a hot topic in the last few years as we see more and more people claim this part of their identity and share their lived experiences with the world. Like with so many …
Written by Nobuhle Porn is where I learnt a few things about sex, granted not everything is real or helpful. One of the things I learnt is that moaning and dirty talk during sex is a …
Ethical non-monogamy can be defined as participating in more than one relationship in an ethical way. “Ethical” implies that everyone involved is consenting and aware they are in a relationship where non-monogamy features, they have discussed …