Written by Bùnmi. The first time I felt shame about the fact that I masturbate is when I heard a group of pastors that came to my secondary school to evangelize condemn it as a sin. …
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Being dominant had never really been for me. I was always that nice little sub who did what they were asked, until recently. Words started to stick themselves to the tip of my tongue, sitting there …
If this world made sense, I’d probably always walk around without a shirt. I’ve known this since I was old enough to take off my own clothes. I enjoy the feel of my skin against my …
By Billy Hani Fingering is often viewed as ‘less than’ in terms of penetrative sex. Due to heterosexual norms, ‘penetrative sex’ is only seen to be valid when it involves a penis. Otherwise, it is simply …
In 2019, I said to my BFFFL Malaka Grant, “I want us to organise a festival on sex and sexualities”, and in November that year, with the support of so many incredible African feminists, we pulled …
Like with any relationship, monogamous or not, safety is a big thing that needs careful attention and thought. The responsibility to maintain safety increases when you are intimately involved with more than one person; simply …
Written by Naomi Despite Kewa being the hottest woman alive, she also got on my nerves a lot. She wasn’t very accountable for the things she said and when I brought them up, I was suddenly …
For you. I do this for you. Because I want to please you. Because your pleasure is mine too. Because your pleasure is a gift you give me; a sacred token I dare not refuse, lest …
(Content Warning: sexual assault & rape) “The profoundest instinct in man is to war against the truth; that is, against the Real. He shuns facts from his infancy. His life is a perpetual evasion. Miracle, chimera …
Non-monogamy has been a hot topic in the last few years as we see more and more people claim this part of their identity and share their lived experiences with the world. Like with so many …