Like with any relationship, monogamous or not, safety is a big thing that needs careful attention and thought. The responsibility to maintain safety increases when you are intimately involved with more than one person; simply by virtue of there being more than one relationship, as well as the fact that the existence of any one relationship or dynamic can and may influence the others. You have to take responsibility for your own safety as an individual, and, if you’re …
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Written by Naomi Despite Kewa being the hottest woman alive, she also got on my nerves a lot. She wasn’t very accountable for the things she said and when I brought them up, I was suddenly …
For you. I do this for you. Because I want to please you. Because your pleasure is mine too. Because your pleasure is a gift you give me; a sacred token I dare not refuse, lest …
Non-monogamy has been a hot topic in the last few years as we see more and more people claim this part of their identity and share their lived experiences with the world. Like with so many …
Written by Nobuhle Porn is where I learnt a few things about sex, granted not everything is real or helpful. One of the things I learnt is that moaning and dirty talk during sex is a …
Sy is standing behind me, close enough that we’re almost touching, but just far enough so we aren’t. Her breath is warm against my neck, almost ticklish. I could take the tiny step back anytime and …
Written by Nobuhle Pussy power, yep we all know we have it. Our vaginas are magic, designed to bring both pleasure and life. As powerful pussy owners we tend to make a few mistakes in the …
Written by Àwòdi Trigger Warning: Mention of sexual abuse The first time I saw people having sex, it was in a porn video I watched at the back of my terrazzo-floored classroom in secondary school. Two …
30/07/2022 19:51 I found out tonight how I want to die. Before, I thought I wanted to die in my sleep at a smug old age, while nestled up against the person I love. Today, I …
Written by Mide Throughout its history, from lyrics to music videos, the hip-hop industry has been criticized for its sexism. Considering that the industry is male-dominated, this is not surprising. Hip-hop music, while unbridled and overt, …
In September 2020, I attended a Sexual Attitudes Reassessment (SAR) course hosted by Sex Coach University, the institution through which I was completing my sex coaching qualification. As a baby in the industry, I was overwhelmed …
