A lot of us are used to not getting aftercare. There’s the wham bam, we say thank you ma’am and everyone goes on their merry way. As such, we may not even realise that it is a need we have until we experience it that first time with someone who cares about more than the sex. And because we may not know it’s a need we have, we in turn don’t know that it’s a need we also have to …
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Your phone says it is 4am. You smell something sweet in your dream. Rolling over half asleep, you dream speak to your partner. ‘That’s bread’. Yes, it is a bakery. The singular notes of vanilla, nutmeg, …
by Audrey Obuobisa-Darko When I began watching The Ultimatum: Queer Love, I thought, “Giving your partner an ultimatum for marriage is such an extreme move. If you have to get to this stage, might it not …
Written by Troubled Teen For as long as I can remember, starting a relationship has been something I’ve wanted. Everywhere I looked, it seemed as if that was the thing everyone was doing. From my parents …
“Can I get your back?” They ask. You gleefully oblige, handing them the jar of shea butter. Kissing your neck, they warm the butter between their palms and when they settle those palms on your back, …
Ladies, as a sexually active woman, maintaining good hygiene and keeping the coochie clean and fresh is a must for your overall well-being and confidence. Proper hygiene is not only for feeling fresh and clean; it …
It rained heavily in Accra. ECG did not take away your light. A fucking miracle! Usually, the heavy rain was one of the easiest excuses ECG used to pocket their electricity from the average Ghanaian. Their …
by Kafui Offori Hey there!!! Wondering why the excitement? Well, ICYMI: Adventures Live! X The Spread 2023 is duly launched! Our annual festival on sex and sexualities, community and solidarity-building — and of course, lots and …
I love sex. I love the feel of another person’s body close to me, touching me, caressing me, and arousing me. I love the promise of a climax that begins with a heated look and ends …
I want you…to dominate me. Take complete control over my body. My spirit. My soul even. I want you…to dominate me. In sexual …sensual excitement. In pleasure. I beg you, take over my being. Hold your …
by Aisha Mohammed The first time you sat naked on my couch I pictured the moment you would let me have you. You just got back from some guy’s house and complained that the room was …