At an event in Accra a few weeks ago I saw this young man wearing a T shirt that says ‘Pussy Magnet’ (as pictured). I run after him and asked if I could take a picture for my blog. “So what does it mean when you have pussy magnet written on your t-shirt” I asked him. He was surprisingly bashful, and tried to laugh off my question. “You can’t be shy and wear a t-shirt like this you know”. I …