There is this guy I’m thinking of shagging, and there are a 1001 reasons why I shouldn’t shag him but I probably will anyway. We met at a party a couple of months ago…some good azonto music came on and I started dancing and beckoned to him. He came over like a shot and we started grinding. He was fun to dance with. At the end of the night he asked for my number. I was amused. I had asked him to dance only because I wanted to dance not because I fancied him.
 
Me: “You should have my number already anyway. I’m very sure I’ve given it to you before”
Him: “I lost my phone”
 
So I …

A friend cracked me up some time ago when she said to me,
‘Nana I don’t want to fall in love with X. Tell me what to do’.
Yes, falling in love with the man you’re shagging is a bad idea. A very bad idea, especially when the relationship revolves purely or mainly around sex.
Quite a few women I have spoken to tell me that the longer they sleep with someone, the more they begin to connect with them emotionally. An emotional connection in a buddy relationship is problematic for a number of reasons. Here are some hypothetical (yet true to life) situations that make falling in love with your buddy difficult:
• Your relationship …