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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

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Once Upon A Time

In Creative Non FictionPublish DateNovember 13, 2024Leave a comment Guest

Written by Wolverine Once upon a time I was young & carefree,Naive and in love.I lacked for nothing.I had my twin babies planned.I had wanted a ring with an emerald flower centerpiece.I wanted a gown, in lilac not white, with intricate lace patterns.Alas, he broke my virginity, and then my heart, and now love doesn’t live here any more. Once upon a time I had that dream to excel.I mean at that time education was the key to success. Even …

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The Disaster That Was My First-Time Sex, and the Lessons Learned

The Disaster That Was My First-Time Sex, and the Lessons Learned

In Lifestyle, Pleasure ToolkitPublish DateMay 24, 20241 Comment Shalom Esene

What My 20 Year-Old Self Thought She Knew and What She Should Have Known The first time I had sex, I felt as though my whole body was engulfed in fire, raging from my cervix straight …

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‘Shall I remain a virgin?’ asks guest contributor Eleanor T.K.

‘Shall I remain a virgin?’ asks guest contributor Eleanor T.K.

In Abstinence, General IssuesPublish DateJanuary 12, 20149 Comments Guest

Till this day I can hold a book (whether novel or guide) or a movie (be it a romantic comedy or those XXX demos) as responsible for most of what I know on the topic of …

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Guest Contributor Hitchedyke: My First time (that never was)

Guest Contributor Hitchedyke: My First time (that never was)

In Lesbian, RelationshipsPublish DateJune 8, 20127 Comments Guest

A girls virginity is something to be treasured right? (well that’s what they say anyway). People build such anticipation for that first time you give yourself to someone. Will you enjoy it? Will it be painful? …

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Guest Contributor Afua: “Virginity and first time falsehood”

Guest Contributor Afua: “Virginity and first time falsehood”

In General IssuesPublish DateJune 15, 201110 Comments Guest

I am a sexually experienced woman who has had her fair share of sexual partners. I’m lucky to be able to say that most of it has been great sex. But it hasn’t always been that …

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Guest Contributor Darian: Good Christian Girls Don’t Have Sex…

Guest Contributor Darian: Good Christian Girls Don’t Have Sex…

In General IssuesPublish DateJuly 10, 200994 Comments Nana Darkoa

I am a virgin, always have been, and will hopefully (cross my fingers and pray fervently!) not always remain so. When I was growing up, the sole purpose of my virginity was my religion – good …

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On the subject of Virgins and Virginity

On the subject of Virgins and Virginity

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 25, 200914 Comments Nana Darkoa

The recent conversations on visits to the Ob/Gyn have somehow led to the subject of virginity and associated issues such as, who is a virgin? Someone who has never had sex? Someone whose hymen is intact …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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  1. R.R. on “I waited until 30 to have sex and I have some things to share…”July 4, 2025

    What I remember of my first time was that it shouldn’t have been him. It was one of the worst…

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