Yes ladies, we’re going there today! It’s the thing that everyone does but hates to talk about and I’m not referring to farting 🙂 Ok, I agree- not everyone does it. Take my big sister for example. She once confided in me that she had never masturbated before.
Before you get skeptical, let me explain. She was born with a terminal illness and she has spent most of her life in pain. Understandably, when your body is constantly in intense pain, stroking your genitalia may be the last thing on your mind.
Which brings us to the 65% of women & 90% of men who masturbate: (come on ladies is it really only 65% of us who masturbate? Hmmm!!!) Do you masturbate? Are you a rare, frequent or reformed ‘masturbator’? I used to play with myself routinely, but now that I’m dating my boyfriend, I can’t climax through masturbation. I enjoy his ‘shagging’ skills so much that masturbation doesn’t get me off anymore. Of course I’ve not told him this because his ego is huge enough as it is! Hehehe
How do you masturbate? I know that there are several ways women fondle themselves. Some gals push their thighs together very hard which squeezes their clitorises and helps them orgasm (my bff does this). Others, like moi, move their clits round and round with their fingers or use their fingers to repeatedly stab at their clits (Hahaha, ‘stab’). Some thrust their fingers or objects into their vaginas. I once read a book by Sidney Sheldon (bless his soul, he was such a naughty old man!) in which a woman was said to have climaxed using gushing water from a tap. I tried it- it didn’t work. What do you think about when you masturbate? A fantasy? Your last sexcapade? A porn flick? Someone you’d like to fuck?
Why do people hate to admit that they masturbate? Is it because masturbation is condemned by most cultures and religions? For centuries, people believed that masturbation caused madness, blindness, and other diseases.
Is masturbation a sin in your culture or religion? I’m a Christian (a very recalcitrant one who’s always praying for forgiveness). Although the Bible doesn’t specifically say ‘thou shall not masturbate’, most theologians believe that masturbation is not in line with God’s plan for sex. My pastor once famously told our congregation that whenever you masturbate, you’re having sex with the devil. Afterwards, whenever I felt like touching myself, I imagined a black, two-horned creature with a pitch-fork leering at me. What a mood killer!
To masturbate or not to masturbate, that is the question! Do you think people should masturbate or not? Does masturbation negatively affect people and relationships?