I’ve recently found myself questioning my desire to have multiple sexual partners. I have always been monogamous even when I’m with a casual sexual partner as with my current situation. He is great in bed…exceptionally open to trying new things so logically I should be satisfied but he is not my boyfriend and whilst I am not in a steady relationship I want to have as much (safe) fun as possible.
I recently bumped into someone who I have only had the pleasure of ‘coming’ with once…well multiple times but only on one night and I had to fight with all my might not to arrange to link up with him for a repeat session. I have told myself that I should only really be fucking one person at a time but the memory of the latter dude’s tongue inside my pussy was unshakeable. I succeeded in avoiding him and staying “faithful” to the man who is not even my boyfriend and I suppose more importantly staying faithful to womankind. It is after all drummed into us that we are not allowed to have more than one sexual partner at anyone time whilst my male friends are allowed to have as many as they like as long as they are not in a relationship with any of them. Its frustrating because I know I am capable of separating the emotion from the sexual but the voice of morality keeps my inner “freak” at bay… I met a woman in her 50s recently who described a period in her life when she had a few guys on speed dial who she would call whenever she wanted male company; she made it sound so empowering…I think I may have been the only woman in my age group tempted to replicate her actions…and you know what, the more I think about it the more I may just do it.
Any of you ladies ever had multiple partners?