Ultimate Sex Playlist: African Edition -

Okay Adventurers, which of you like music? Raise your hands. Thought so. There’s a whole post from years and years ago to support this. I love music. Always have, always will and I’ve always believed that music can be an integral part of any sex session. It can set the mood, it can say lovey-dovey things you aren’t yet ready to admit; it can be a conversation starter because the song can say something a little out there that you can laugh about or say something that sounds very appealing that you can suggest, while still always being able to say “It’s just the song oo” and give yourself an out; it can provide a great beat to move your hips to; it can give you motivation when the wind is going out of your sails; chale, it can do everything but cure cancer. I’ve always had what I call a “babymakin’ musiq” playlist. Sadly, it has always consisted of a mix of R&B, soul, neo-soul, reggae and dancehall. With some gospel thrown in there for when I say “Oh my God, I’m coming!” (Nah, I’m kidding).

I’ve always listened to a bunch of African music but for some reason I never got around to utilizing its innate sex-scene-setting abilities. Then about a year ago I saw the light. So my loves I thought I’d share my African sex playlist with you. I call it “Ahundzi and Atumpan.” I believe sexing music should capture all stages: start with romance for the flirting, get suggestive for the foreplay, get rhythmic for the riding, get reggaelicous for the winding down and then get mellow for the afterglow. With an African sex playlist I’ve discovered that the riding part is the longest, partly because that is my style and then also because African music is beat-heavy so a lot of it is not exactly suitable for stroking hair and gazing into eyes. So check out the playlist, pick your favorite tracks from each section, modify it to your own specific sexytimes trajectory and enjoy.

Mensah – Fante Love Song
Seyi Shay ft. Sarkodie – Weekend Vibes Remix
Susie – My Body
Dipp ft. Yemi Alade – Rock Your Body
Sauti Sol – Nishike
Banky W – Follow You Go (Sisi Eko)
Banky W – Strong Ting
Nameless – Sinzia
Flavour – Your Black is Beautiful
Flavour ft. Tiwa Savage – Oyi Remix
Kojo Antwi – Bo Me Nkomode
Kojo Antwi – Akonoba
Nameless – Inspire
Sarkodie ft. Runtown – Painkiller
Iyanya – Head Swell
Koredo Bello – Romantic
Davido – If
Ice Prince ft. Brymo – Oleku
Mr Eazi – Rotate Sketch
Tekno – Pana
Maleek Berry – Kontrol
Femi Kuti – Beng Beng Beng
Lagbaja – Konko Below
Flavour – Shake
Bracket – Shoe Size
Bisa K’dei – Guy Guy
Banky W ft. Chidinma– All I Want Is You
P-Square – Do Me
Samini ft. Wizkid – Time Bomb
Samini ft. Kaakie – Body Flame
Solidstar ft. Timaya – My Body
Seyi Shay ft. Patoranking – Murda
Eugy ft. Mr Eazi – Body
Tiwa Savage – All Over
Patoranking – Killing Me
Masterkraft – Because of You
Didi ft. Flavour – You Get Am
Kofi Kinaata – Sweetie Pie
DeeVS ft. Bisa K’dei – Yebeko
Seyi Shay – Right Now
Le Band ft. Suzziah – Number 1
Vusi Nova – Thandiwe
Kwabena Kwabena – Meye

Oh, and just as a bonus if you happen to want a Caribbean grinding and slow winding section to add to your coitus Africanus here is my go-to stack. It fits awesomely in the middle of any playlist.

Tanya Stephens – It’s a Pity
Gregory Isaacs – Night Nurse
Gregory Isaacs – Feeling Irie
Shaggy – Leave It to Me
Shabba Ranks ft. Johnny Gill – Slow & Sexy
Shabba Ranks ft. Maxi Priest – House Call (Your Body Can’t Lie to Me)
Vybz Kartel – Beg Yuh A Fuck

PS: All of the above playlists are just as good for solo sex as they are for partner sex. So if you are like me and you are nashing don’t despair. Just grab your battery-operated-boyfriend and let the sex-sounds wash over your soul.

Oh, and Adventurers, if you have a playlist or just some favorite songs you think the rest of us can add to our collections share with the class so we can all bump and grind to the drumbeat of the motherland.