A year ago I asked you all what your sex and relationship goals were for 2019 whilst sharing where I was in terms of my understanding of my own sexuality, and my desire for relationships and …
Category: Creative Non Fiction
Keys out of the ignition. A deep breath. A quietly whispered recommitment and solemn vow that nothing, absolutely nothing would happen between us now that I was here. 8 hours of nonstop driving had left the …
Mema aban ntsi me dzin Mema mikotsi n’wu Don’t let the government hear of me Don’t let my penis die (Fanti traditional ruler’s words in pouring libation) The first plea to the gods and the ancestors …
Here’s some background. I’m a few months shy of 42 years old, a mother of two – a 21-year-old-level-300 daughter and a 5-year old son with Down syndrome. I was raped by a friend which led …
The tears fell down. They fell down onto his bare torso. You see, I was on top of him, riding him like a horse in full gallop; my naked breasts jiggling to the rhythm I had …
I didn’t feel any different when I turned 40. I felt just the same as I did when I was 39, but as the year has crept on I’ve begun to feel my age. My body …
I love sex. I love all kinds of sex. From the slow, full, thorough thrusts with deep, exploring tongues inside wet hungry mouths to the fast, furious, clothes shredding, back scratching, pounding, punishing strokes which leave …
What brought me here is heartbreak. After being in a relationship for almost three years and having experienced it ending, I decided that it is time to write and share my thoughts and experiences with the world. …
I’m not convinced that monogamy works – at least not for me. In my primary relationships there’s always been a point where I’ve felt like, ‘oh my god, I need to sleep with someone else’. And …
I recently sacked my watchman. Although I clearly told him why I was terminating our contract, he still called me at 10:45 pm a few nights ago because he wanted to pick up some belongings he …