A couple of months ago, you may recall that Nana and I went on a search for new “accoutrements” while she was here in Atlanta. It was during that time that both she and the accoutrements …
Category: General Issues
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Issues that do not fit into our broad categories
I want to congratulate my fellow Ghana blogger Nana Yaw for highlighting an issue which many Africans shun from – the issue of same sex relationships. His series throughout the week highlighted different aspects of same …
For some reason just started thinking about all the different types of sex one can have. Here’s what comes to mind, I will start with the obvious ones… • Vaginal sex • Oral sex • Anal …
There is much that thrills me about being thirty something including: • Being thirty something yet looking like I’m twenty something • An increased sense of confidence and self worth • Greater financial and personal freedom …
On this blog I generally write about the “good” aspects of sex and how to have good sex. However, there is a flip side to sex: There are some women whose sexual rights and bodily integrity …
Blow job, fellatio, head, or whatever else you choose to call it, why do African women hardly talk about it? Growing up, the reactions from my fellow African women in regards to giving blow jobs ran …
For my thoughts on being black, womanhood and body issues do check out the interview with Girl, It’s Not Just You… Do let me know your thoughts on the interview …
A few weeks ago one of my oldest friends accused me of being “anti-marriage, anti-relationship and anti-children”, I was shocked. “Me?” I responded, “Where did you get that impression from?” “It’s true” she said, if you …
I come from the social constructivist school of thought and I’m loath to admit to any strong biological imperatives. My reasons for this are mainly political, women’s biology seems to be used as an excuse to …
Why is it that people ask if you’re gay when you stand up for gay rights? Why do I know so many wonderful single girls and no single men? Being in a relationships is overrated. Religious …