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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

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10 Mistakes That Led Me Here

In RelationshipsPublish DateAugust 13, 2025Leave a comment A. Duchess

My first mistake was locking eyes with you in a roomful of people who hated each other. We were on opposite sides of the battle, and finding someone who looked as bored as I was by the whole ridiculous rivalry startled me, but after we locked eyes, you didn’t look away, and neither did I. For a whole minute, we stared at each other while arguments erupted around us, not looking away from each other. Neither of us smiled; there …

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What Divorce Means for Muslim Women in Nigeria. 

What Divorce Means for Muslim Women in Nigeria. 

In RelationshipsPublish DateAugust 11, 2025Leave a comment Guest

Written by: Mariam Seme My sister got married at 19. At the time, she believed it was what she wanted, but now, at 24, she is divorced with a 3-year-old son and starting over from scratch. …

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The Invention

The Invention

In RelationshipsPublish DateJuly 28, 20251 Comment Guest

Written by Idayat Jinadu “Say it again.”“I love you.”“Say it again.”Sigh. “I love you.”“You hesitated; you don’t love me.”“No, Mosebolatan, I didn’t hesitate. I love you, okay? Very much.” A kiss on the forehead. “If your …

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GOD’S GIFT

GOD’S GIFT

In RelationshipsPublish DateJuly 25, 2025Leave a comment A. Duchess

I try to suppress my emotions as I drive through the quiet suburban neighbourhood, stifling my growing nerves with each metre I cover. The closer I get to the unknown, the more my nerves intensify. Will …

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Chit-chat With the Gurls (3): Dating Younger Men: “Why Not?”, “It Depends”, or “Hell, no”?

Chit-chat With the Gurls (3): Dating Younger Men: “Why Not?”, “It Depends”, or “Hell, no”?

In RelationshipsPublish DateJune 27, 2025Leave a comment A. Duchess

Age is just a number — or is it? Relationship age gaps in African society have always been accepted — when it’s an older man and younger woman dynamic. We see parents urging their daughters to …

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Confessays: Sex on a DigiVerse

Confessays: Sex on a DigiVerse

In RelationshipsPublish DateApril 17, 2025Leave a comment Guest

Written by Tade I have always ached to be just one man’s slut— to embrace my sexual power and be his Adderall. That day came hard! Juiciness Attracts a Bumblebee The quest for Mr. Perfect on …

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To Be Loved at Home

To Be Loved at Home

In RelationshipsPublish DateMarch 27, 2025Leave a comment A. Duchess

Korkor folded the last of her friend’s clothes with mixed feelings and zipped the suitcase. Dzifa had been a beautiful bride, and the wedding had been so lovely and emotional, but she couldn’t help but have …

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Domestic bliss.

Domestic bliss.

In RelationshipsPublish DateJanuary 29, 2025Leave a comment Guest

Written by Karen Muthoni I saw you. You were there with me, not her.Me.We danced naked, And cooked Chinese, And kissed French. Heard you call it cliché now. I could hear you. Your voice; that raspy delicate tone …

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Worlds Apart

Worlds Apart

In RelationshipsPublish DateNovember 20, 2024Leave a comment A. Duchess

Aria tried to slam the door behind her, but Dave stuck his foot in its path and followed her into the room. “Dave, please leave me alone,” she told him, leaving the living room to her …

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What I’m Not Telling You

What I’m Not Telling You

In RelationshipsPublish DateSeptember 25, 2024Leave a comment Guest

Written by Highest Kite I. I’m Addicted to Sadness  When I left for the university library this morning, my text to you said it was to think and write. But really, it was to sink, give …

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To All The Men I Couldn’t Love Back

To All The Men I Couldn’t Love Back

In RelationshipsPublish DateAugust 12, 2024Leave a comment A. Duchess

To the one who first showed me love, I’m sorry. I remember the late-night calls filled with hours of conversation, and the way you always made me laugh.I remember how you helped me to open up,and …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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  • Yomi Adegoke: Being ‘A Wholesome Babe’ Who Also Loves Writing About Sex
    by aqstudiosafrica on July 23, 2024 at 12:36 pm
  • New Mom, Hot Takes: Audrey Indome's Bedroom Chronicles
    by aqstudiosafrica on July 23, 2024 at 12:35 pm
  • The Dating Olympics
    by aqstudiosafrica on November 20, 2023 at 3:16 pm

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  1. How Moms Are Using Cartoons and Nursery Rhymes To Break Sex Ed Taboos | Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women on Involving My Mother in My Relationship and Sex Life.August 10, 2025

    […] many Nigerian families, discussions about sex are often muted and shrouded in secrecy, deemed too sensitive for open dialogue.…

  2. Oladoyin on How Moms Are Using Cartoons and Nursery Rhymes To Break Sex Ed TaboosAugust 9, 2025

    This is extremely good and educative.

  3. Malaka on This Too Is MarriageAugust 6, 2025

    I absolutely loved this piece! This reminds me of those guys who request an open relationship/marriage and then discover that…

  4. Malaka on The InventionJuly 28, 2025

    "You don’t want to make me angry. The last time I was angry, I pushed someone and… I don’t want…

  5. R.R. on “I waited until 30 to have sex and I have some things to share…”July 4, 2025

    What I remember of my first time was that it shouldn’t have been him. It was one of the worst…

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