Written by Nyambura I jolt awake at 4:31 am, because his mouth is on mine and he is pulling my body to his, with a sense of urgency. One of his hands is wrapped around my waist and with the other, his fingers trying to penetrate and probe between my thighs. I can feel the extra heat coming from him and between his legs in addition to the heat we have created together, facing each other while sleeping naked throughout …
Category: Sexuality
Written by Wolverine Tired of feeling ashamed,Tired of letting words slice me like a blade,Tired of seeing looks that make me want to be invisible, I close my door, look at myself in the mirror,Start to …
Brenda Fassie was the first woman I knew who owned her sexuality. Her gyrating hips and itty-bitty beaded skirts often got her branded with unsavory names in the media but nothing could stop her blaze. “WH*RE!” …
Written By Oladoyin Alana In the bible, the wages of sin is death. Similarly, in the Yoruba society, a cheating female partner is rewarded with shame, trauma and in extreme cases, death! The woman’s pleasure could …
Written by Juliet Nnaji In a world that is always evolving, conversations about diversity and inclusion play a crucial role in shaping a more understanding society. Recognising the importance of continuing the conversation on LGBTQ+ issues …
Not everyone is into casual sex. Some people prefer to have some emotional or romantic connection with someone before they can engage in physical intimacy. However, a demisexual needs to have a strong emotional connection with …
Je suis récemment tombée sur un article qui remettait en question la croyance largement répandue que les femmes ont une libido plus faible que les hommes. L’article citait des recherches récentes qui établissent un lien entre …
Par Kgothatso Motshele Très souvent, quand les gens entendent parler de polyamour, leur première réaction est de se demander comment c’est possible d’aimer et de vivre ainsi, avec tout ce que nous venons avec en tant …
Par Voluptuous Voltarian Au début de ma relation avec mon dernier petit ami, nous nous trouvions un jour dans sa voiture et nous discutions des choses à faire et à ne pas faire sur le plan …
I grew up in the church. That probably tells you a lot about how I’ve been conditioned to think about sex and pleasure, especially as it relates to me as a spiritual being. I hadn’t always …
Written by Remi * Trigger warnings: Mentions of sexual harassment, sexual assault and homophobia. I started to consume BL and ‘yaoi’ content in my early teenage years. Most of the ‘sex scenes’ were in fact sexual …