This is how most girls, cis or trans, come to understand the limits of our lives: we are introduced early to the guardians of girlhood known as shame and fear. From the moment our girlhood is …
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“Na Gay Dey Reign” is a term used on Nigerian Twitter to mean it’s time for the LGBTQIA+ community to shine, and they are here to stay. For centuries, we have been made to believe certain …
Three years ago, I was in a relationship where my partner stopped having sex with me out of the blues. No explanations, no nothing. At first, I assumed they were taking a break due to reasons …
With large gatherings and close proximity to others out of the question, the pandemic has interrupted the ways in which we traditionally connect with our desires. But that doesn’t mean you still can’t find new ways …
It is that time to set your sex goals for the year! Now I know the World is still ablaze because of Covid-19 and so much is still in the balance as to what our lives …
I knew I would want to write about my first time. Whether good or bad, I believed that having waited for, wondered about, and even idealized that first encounter for so long I would be moved …
Years ago a “because of the D” challenge spread on social media with celebrities rapping about the craziest thing good dick had pushed them to do and the rest of social media chiming in too. I …
Adventures From The Bedrooms of African Women is pleased to announce that applications will open on January 20, 2021 for the 2021 Adventurous Writing and Social Media Fellowship Program. The aim of these fellowships is to …
Last year I came to the realization that I wasn’t feeling my sex partners’ touch anymore. It was like I wasn’t present. I guess it was a way for my body to protect itself because although …
Here I am once again, crying about my pussy. This has been happening a lot lately. Since things ended with that man. Although I can’t be sure things ended because of my dysfunctional vagina, I can’t …