One evening when my lover came round for our regular evening visit I made a joke that I would strip for him. This sparked his interest and of course he wanted me to act on it and surprisingly though I tried to joke my way out of it I wanted to do it to. Its not a big deal to some but I've never given anyone a lap dance, none of my past boyfriends not even the long term ones...although thinking about it now many of them wanted me to give them ...  [Read more]

I have a boyfriend! Or maybe I should say a man friend? Or shall I say partner? I like that word ‘partner’. It’s ‘adult’ (unlike boyfriend) and implies someone who shares your life, someone who supports you and is there for you. On the other hand, ‘partner’ sounds a bit faddy daddy’ish and even a little boring. So what can I call my boyfriend/man friend/partner? How about lover? I know it kind of implies a purely sexual ...  [Read more]

Vagina is for lovers Yes, I said it! So what? You were thinking it...were you not? I guess this must be one of those topics where I think everybody is on board. Here's what I think. I'm a lesbian for a reason. Contrary to popular heterosexist belief, I was not molested by my father, brother or any other dominant male in my life. I am a lesbian because I love the softness of a woman, I crave a gentle touch and I can appreciate her with all ...  [Read more]