Freedom is-
Transgression
Break every rule there is!
Take back every part of yourself
Defy, disobey, disrupt!
Freedom is risk-
Make them uncomfortable
Make them show themselves
Make them pick a side
Take of their masks
Freedom is-
Sexual transgression
Freedom is-
Loving many people at once
Sexually, romantically,
platonically
Blurring the lines every chance
I get
Daring to say ‘yes’ or ‘let’s explore,’
where convention would say
‘no’ and ‘don’t’
Free is wearing my love and
lust on my sleeve
Loving & fucking out loud
in public and in private
Freedom is-
“A life free of the compulsory”
~Mona Eltahawy
Freedom is-
Queerness
Queer is powerful
Queer implies resistance,
defiance of normal
Are you actually straight,
or have you been socialised into
compulsory heterosexuality?
compulsory monogamy?
Have you ever considered life
without the compulsory?
Freedom is-
The one true goal
Free or die
I own my body
I determine my sexual expression
I am my final authority
In the face of all the ways
this could end,
ultimately,
Free or die.
Freedom is-
Playtime
in the face of life’s greatest pressures
life’s most complex complexities
Joy & play & rest
becomes our most
radical act
Freedom is-
Radical openness
Together
With each other
To exist together
in our most natural state
No airs, no masks
No plans,
Lots in each our minds
Sometimes we don’t need to
talk about it
Sometimes we already know its
not the end of the world
Existing together
as we ride out our own storms
feels…
radically freeing
Freedom is-
Daring to leave a mark
in the world
Daring to be seen
Daring to say ‘i am here’
and later say,
‘I was here’
Freedom is-
Writing like my words matter
Writing with the intention to change
the world
Writing to take my place up there with
the writers who came before
who changed my world
Freedom is-
Why we fight
Why we must be different
Why we must channel our
godliness
and demand the existence
we are worthy of
(i am as divine as the stars, the moon,
the sky and the ocean,
I’m celestial, bitch!)
Freedom is-
Why we must kill all men
Justifiable violence in response to
their senseless violence
is the thing that will save us
Freedom is-
When they fear us
When they know that there
can be consequences
When they are forced to sit down
and acknowledge their own
shackles
Freedom is-
Shrooms tripping
My capacity to imagine
Inspires me to stay the course
(free or die)
Freedom is-
Spending my rest time
laid up in bed
Watching black gay porn
on twitter
Asking the universe to send
me a,
(lemme check my notes)
“…a regular dick lover
a.k.a dick on demand,
sex without complexities”
Freedom is-
Saying with conviction
and authority
“Universe, send me a man to fuck on the regular. Make him tall, skinny, black & dreadlocked (+4 years of growing, I want length), with a dick like that dude I made out with from Blackout. Also, cute, clean and good taste in music.”
I crave dick sex without complexities
I imagine it like an achievement of harmony, between
my inner masculine & the external masculine
(but men won’t let us have anything)
Freedom is-
Exploring the depth and breadth
of sex
Letting go of what they taught
us & allowing ourselves
to flow with what could be
Allowing every sexual interaction to flow like
water,
free from expectations, assumptions,
other people’s voices
For example,
Freedom is-
Knowing what to expect from sex with men
Me? I’m in it for the dick
Period.
(i don’t fuck men who don’t outwardly exude some big dick energy)
(men are too much trouble to care for, i truly only want to fuck)
(even then, i’ll still deal with lame, unnecessary bullshit so i very much need assurances that the sex will be good. no, i will not stop to reassure men about anything so i stick to my type)
Freedom is-
Adventure
Curious questioning
Shedding of judgments
Allowing self compassion
Losing yourself in the intended flow of life