I recently came across an article that challenged the widely-held belief that women have a lower sex drive than men. The article cited recent research that links a woman’s first sexual experience to her subsequent sexual drive. In other words, women who enjoy their first sexual experience are more likely to have a higher sex drive than those who have a bad or unsatisfactory experience without reaching orgasm. Intrigued by this new theory, I conducted a poll in a closed …
Written by Miracle Okah Back in the day, sex wasn’t just a mere three-letter word for women. It was a whispered word, a word spoken in hushed tones, most times with a hand half-covering the mouth. …
Written by Miracle Okah What would society look like without rigid beauty standards? Without relentless policing of women’s bodies? Without people searching for flaws, even when there are none? Well, I know what it would look …
Written by Balogun Iretomiwa Arsela stood naked in front of the full-length mirror and took a good look at herself. She couldn’t believe what she saw; it seemed so surreal, impossible. Suddenly, an arm came from …
“Hi, mamas! What do you do when your beautiful baby boy (only 19) wants to start dating? I was his first love and I just can’t imagine another girl. It’s hard.” Most people can immediately see …
What My 20 Year-Old Self Thought She Knew and What She Should Have Known The first time I had sex, I felt as though my whole body was engulfed in fire, raging from my cervix straight …
Catch up here. After three months of working as a sex worker, I have met different types of men — and women. Some just needed a quick fuck – wham, bang, goodbye. Others like to take …
Not everyone is into casual sex. Some people prefer to have some emotional or romantic connection with someone before they can engage in physical intimacy. However, a demisexual needs to have a strong emotional connection with …
Je suis récemment tombée sur un article qui remettait en question la croyance largement répandue que les femmes ont une libido plus faible que les hommes. L’article citait des recherches récentes qui établissent un lien entre …
Understanding vaginismus: What it is and why it’s important to talk about it The first time I heard of vaginismus was on Twitter. Pop Crave posted an article with the caption, “Meghan Trainor causes chatter online …
There is a ton of material out there that advocates for the use of pleasure products and toys, and how instrumental they can be in the journey of exploring pleasure. Toys have empowered a lot of …
