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Meeting the Sun

In General IssuesPublish DateAugust 12, 2025Leave a comment Guest

Written by Sheila Kal On the evening I leave for Japan, my heart begs to be empty so I can fly untethered but my gut is bothered,  my body is chilled and my mind is bent  from calculating. How and why will this take a full day?  The itinerary says to take off at six o’clock from Nairobi  and arrival at seven fifteen in Narita, Tokyo.  Save for the embarrassment of not locating the incredibly tiny flush  button in the …

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It Should Have Been You

It Should Have Been You

In General IssuesPublish DateJuly 18, 2025Leave a comment A. Duchess

Sometimes, I stay up late at night, yearning. I look at him lying peacefully next to me, and I know he deserves better, but I can’t help but think that it should have been you. It …

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The Joys of Least Resistance

The Joys of Least Resistance

In General IssuesPublish DateJune 30, 2025Leave a comment Guest

Written by Idayat Jinadu A few months back, I needed to get some beads as I was learning how to make bead bags. I knew a woman at the market who sold accessories, and I was …

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A Deep Dive Into The Politics Of The Prude

A Deep Dive Into The Politics Of The Prude

In General IssuesPublish DateJune 25, 2025Leave a comment Guest

You have just returned from the market with a basket of fruits and vegetables. You go to the chapel where your neighbour, a widow in her 80s, often spends the rest of her days in prayers; …

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WHY I STOPPED WATCHING INDUSTRY PORN

WHY I STOPPED WATCHING INDUSTRY PORN

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 13, 2025Leave a comment Guest

Written By Brutally Candid I’m 21 years old; I have never had sex. I have never been in a romantic relationship, and I have never kissed or been kissed. If you are in the same age …

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Meet The Adventures Creators Class of 2025!

Meet The Adventures Creators Class of 2025!

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 9, 2025Leave a comment Adventures Staff

Dear Esteemed Adventures Reader, After an intense application season and many passionate debates (yes, even a few friendly arguments!), we’re thrilled to introduce the Adventures Creators Fellowship Class of 2025! Each year, we’re blown away by …

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Breaking the Silence: African Women and the Myth of the “Good Girl”

Breaking the Silence: African Women and the Myth of the “Good Girl”

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 6, 2025Leave a comment Guest

Written by Amarachi Nwokocha From time immemorial, there has been a pervasive myth about African women that has penetrated deeply into the society – the myth of the “good girl”. A typical African girl child is …

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When Does It Get Pleasurable?

When Does It Get Pleasurable?

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 8, 2025Leave a comment Guest

Written by Fatimah Haruna A typical girl’s hostel, bubbling with activities. The room is in perfect symmetry, with bunk beds at each of the four corners. Slices of joint wardrobe at the centre of the two …

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Applications Are Open for the 2025 Adventures Creators Programme!

Applications Are Open for the 2025 Adventures Creators Programme!

In General IssuesPublish DateFebruary 15, 2025Leave a comment Adventures Staff

Adventures From The Bedrooms of African Women is pleased to announce that applications are now open for the 2025 Adventures Creators Program under the theme: “My Feminism Is_.” The Adventures Creators Program seeks to amplify feminist …

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Fruitgasm

Fruitgasm

In General IssuesPublish DateFebruary 12, 2025Leave a comment Delasi Sanenu

You see the bowl in front of you, a beautiful masterpiece of understated colour. There’s the reddish-orange hue of the pawpaw, the yellow of the mango and the suggestive cream of the banana. The fruits are …

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Sixteen Years of Adventurous Bedrooms Antics!

Sixteen Years of Adventurous Bedrooms Antics!

In General IssuesPublish DateJanuary 18, 2025Leave a comment Malaka

As Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women turns 16 years old on January 18, 2024, we find ourselves in a celebratory mood—and for good reason! It’s been a remarkable journey of growth, learning, and unapologetic …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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  1. How Moms Are Using Cartoons and Nursery Rhymes To Break Sex Ed Taboos | Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women on Involving My Mother in My Relationship and Sex Life.August 10, 2025

    […] many Nigerian families, discussions about sex are often muted and shrouded in secrecy, deemed too sensitive for open dialogue.…

  2. Oladoyin on How Moms Are Using Cartoons and Nursery Rhymes To Break Sex Ed TaboosAugust 9, 2025

    This is extremely good and educative.

  3. Malaka on This Too Is MarriageAugust 6, 2025

    I absolutely loved this piece! This reminds me of those guys who request an open relationship/marriage and then discover that…

  4. Malaka on The InventionJuly 28, 2025

    "You don’t want to make me angry. The last time I was angry, I pushed someone and… I don’t want…

  5. R.R. on “I waited until 30 to have sex and I have some things to share…”July 4, 2025

    What I remember of my first time was that it shouldn’t have been him. It was one of the worst…

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