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“My voice was hoarse for two days after”: women describe their experiences of choking during sex without prior discussion 

In General IssuesPublish DateOctober 5, 20262 Comments Malaka

Written by Eniiyi When Ifeoma opened her mouth to tell him to stop, nothing came out. They had been having sex for a few minutes when his hands closed around her neck, and at first she did not think much of it because she had seen choking before in films and pornography. But when his grip tightened, she realised she was struggling to breathe and tried to tell him to stop, only to find that she could not get the …

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South African Women Cannot “Precaution” Their Way Out of Femicide. 

South African Women Cannot “Precaution” Their Way Out of Femicide. 

In Sex and SocietyPublish DateSeptember 23, 2026Leave a comment Miracle

On the 9th of September, Elizabeth ‘Tsontso’ Moselakgomo, a 38-year-old mother and a runner, left her home in Kempton Park for her usual afternoon run. When she did not come back home, her daughter alerted the …

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Lindsay Clancy and What Happens When We Ignore Maternal Mental Health 

Lindsay Clancy and What Happens When We Ignore Maternal Mental Health 

In General IssuesPublish DateSeptember 14, 2026Leave a comment Miracle

On January 24, 2023, someone placed a distressing call from a home in Duxbury, Massachusetts. The caller was Patrick Clancy, and he had just returned home to find his three young children unconscious in the basement. …

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What Does ‘Make Up’ Actually Mean When You’re an African Woman?

What Does ‘Make Up’ Actually Mean When You’re an African Woman?

In General IssuesPublish DateAugust 24, 2026Leave a comment Miracle

“Shut up” is one of the blunt ways to silence someone when you don’t want them to speak anymore. “Forgive and forget” is another way, except it is done subtly, in a more repackaged, refurbished, peaceful, …

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Silence as Inheritance: The Broom, the Lock, and the Bedroom 

Silence as Inheritance: The Broom, the Lock, and the Bedroom 

In Sex and SocietyPublish DateAugust 18, 2026Leave a comment Guest

Written by Ifeoluwa Suleiman My mother had a dream that I would get pregnant by a man far older than me. She never told me about the dream. She just started treating me like it had …

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Men Are Fighting to Keep FGM Alive in The Gambia

Men Are Fighting to Keep FGM Alive in The Gambia

In Sex and SocietyPublish DateJuly 29, 2026Leave a comment Miracle

It is 2026, yet women’s bodies are still governed by everyone except the women themselves. How long will women continue to be at the receiving end of men’s fight for control?  In 2015, The Gambia amended …

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The Parentification of Firstborn Daughters in African Homes  

The Parentification of Firstborn Daughters in African Homes  

In General IssuesPublish DateJuly 27, 2026Leave a comment Miracle

In many African homes, when a parent is about to leave the house, they call the eldest child, no matter how young, to look after their younger siblings and take charge.  “You are now the second …

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“Not All Men” Was Never About Accountability

“Not All Men” Was Never About Accountability

In Sex and SocietyPublish DateApril 27, 2026Leave a comment Miracle

CNN recently exposed a website that hosted over 20,000 videos of women who had been drugged and filmed by their partners while they were unconscious. The site had recorded around 62 million visits. Imagine millions of …

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It’s World Book Day! Here’s What Our Staff Is (Or Is Not) Reading

It’s World Book Day! Here’s What Our Staff Is (Or Is Not) Reading

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 23, 20262 Comments Adventures Staff

It’s World Book Day! This day is a global initiative promoting reading for pleasure, author engagement, and literacy. Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women is all about pleasure and storytelling, but we also know that …

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Chit-chat with the Gurls 4: Should Men Be Gynaecologists?

Chit-chat with the Gurls 4: Should Men Be Gynaecologists?

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 17, 2026Leave a comment A. Duchess

Women deal with misogyny every day. Regardless of your age, life status, or geographical location, there is always a man—or sometimes, unfortunately, a woman with internalised misogyny—who will try to treat you with less respect because …

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Who Controls Women’s Healthcare? The Global Politics Behind Reproductive Health in Africa

Who Controls Women’s Healthcare? The Global Politics Behind Reproductive Health in Africa

In Sex and SocietyPublish DateApril 6, 2026Leave a comment Miracle

One area of global health policy that is most talked about and yet least understood is reproductive healthcare. Most people know it is important, but only a few understand why it matters, who influences it, or …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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  1. Eniiyi on “My voice was hoarse for two days after”: women describe their experiences of choking during sex without prior discussion October 8, 2026

    Thank you so much! I am really glad the piece resonated with you. ??

  2. Oluwaseyi on THE MARRIAGES WE WATCHED  October 8, 2026

    This explains the fear I do have about marriage. I guess it's what I saw growing up and what I…

  3. Joan on THE MARRIAGES WE WATCHED  October 8, 2026

    As a girl child, I completely understand where she’s coming from. We’re not against love or marriage; we just don’t…

  4. Malaka on “My voice was hoarse for two days after”: women describe their experiences of choking during sex without prior discussion October 6, 2026

    I'm so glad that attention being brought to this part of sexual engagement. I cannot even begin to express how…

  5. Miracle on On Female Friendship and Why We Need Each OtherJuly 30, 2026

    Thank you so much, Malaka. I loved writing this piece in particular because it made me reflect on and appreciate…

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