It’s been four years since I was diagnosed HIV positive. Everything came to a standstill, I felt lost , hurt and angry. He had cheated on me over and over again, but I chose to turn …
Category: General Issues
Issues that do not fit into our broad categories
When I initially came back from the 2012 Farafina writers workshop I wrote my first creative piece, ‘A short time…’ and I am especially happy to tell you all now that Farafina has published a collection …
“You’re like a guy who needs to have his pussy lined up,” said my best friend to me recently. She laughed and then corrected herself; in fact, women should also be able to have sex whenever …
In the past 8 or so years I have dated 3 people. In thinking about what sentence to write next I realize that most of these relationships were long distance ones. A and I were in …
Thanks to all of you that took part in the #SexingWhilst Feminist conversation we hosted with our good friends at HOLA Africa See the storify below, and watch out for future chats. If you didn’t get …
Hello Adventurers, Tomorrow from 6-8pm I will be with my Blogging Ghana community to talk about #SexingWhilstFeminist, a conversation that I think would probably be of interest to this community as well. I hope many of …
A kiss to start your day, A squeeze to your breast. Fingers they do play, Rubbing and cupping your chest. A little rub to your warm treasure, Fingers that dance on your clit. A tongue that …
[Please note this conversation has now been rescheduled to 29th October in solidarity with #MbokodoLead, #NationalShutDown #FeesMustFall] In an ideal, utopian, feminist world, sex with a feminist will be different, better, more intense, more orgasmic, and …
Last Tuesday afternoon I was sitting in my office dreaming about Big Driis and just how “big” he really was down under and all that he could do to me with it, because, well, it was that …
“I don’t want a bionic baby,” said my Mum. Bionic babies are what my Mum and I call test tube babies. We imagine them to be stronger than other babies. – more resilient, bigger, even more …