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Diary of a Sex Worker Chapter 2 – Enjoying Mr. X

In Diary Of A Sex WorkerPublish DateMarch 25, 2024Leave a comment A. Duchess

Catch up here. After three months of working as a sex worker, I have met different types of men — and women. Some just needed a quick fuck – wham, bang, goodbye. Others like to take their time — a conversation, sex, and an overnight stay. Others gave and wanted romance — flowers, a candlelight dinner, and some sweet-talking, followed by slow and sensual lovemaking. Then some wanted the companionship of a beautiful woman giving her whole attention to them …

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Relationship Anarchy

Relationship Anarchy

In General Issues, PolyamoryPublish DateDecember 26, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

We’ve spent a considerable amount of time in the previous pieces unpacking non-monogamy and discussing how to navigate jealousy, envy and compersion in these dynamics. The idea of managing multiple relationships or seeing yourself share your …

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<strong>My Polyamory, My humanness</strong>

My Polyamory, My humanness

In General Issues, Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateDecember 16, 20221 Comment Kgothatso Motshele

Very often, when people hear about polyamory, their first reaction is to ask how it is possible to love and live like this with all that we come with as humans. While it hasn’t always been …

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Jealousy and Envy in Non-monogamy Pt. 2: Communication and Compersion

Jealousy and Envy in Non-monogamy Pt. 2: Communication and Compersion

In General Issues, Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateDecember 14, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

In the first part of this series, we discussed differentiating between envy and jealousy, and how it’s possible to view these emotions as opportunities to identify what you may be lacking or desiring in your relationship. …

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<strong>Jealousy, envy in non-monogamy Pt 1: Are they the same?</strong>

Jealousy, envy in non-monogamy Pt 1: Are they the same?

In General Issues, Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateDecember 6, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

“But how do you deal with jealousy?” This is the commonest question I’ve had in all my years living as an out non-monogamous person, and in my work as an intimacy and sex coach. I hear …

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Maintaining Safety in non-monogamous relationships

Maintaining Safety in non-monogamous relationships

In General Issues, Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateOctober 5, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

  Like with any relationship, monogamous or not, safety is a big thing that needs careful attention and thought. The responsibility to maintain safety increases when you are intimately involved with more than one person; simply …

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Non-monogamy: The Beginning of the journey

Non-monogamy: The Beginning of the journey

In General Issues, Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateSeptember 28, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

Non-monogamy has been a hot topic in the last few years as we see more and more people claim this part of their identity and share their lived experiences with the world. Like with so many …

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Five Myths About Ethical Non-Monogamy

Five Myths About Ethical Non-Monogamy

In General Issues, RelationshipsPublish DateSeptember 21, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

Ethical non-monogamy can be defined as participating in more than one relationship in an ethical way. “Ethical” implies that everyone involved is consenting and aware they are in a relationship where non-monogamy features, they have discussed …

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What are your sex and relationship goals for 2019?

What are your sex and relationship goals for 2019?

In General IssuesPublish DateJanuary 25, 20193 Comments Nana Darkoa

I am a big fan of goal setting. I think there is a lot of power in reflecting on your life, figuring out what you want to change, stating clearly what you want to manifest, taking …

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Side Chicks and (Out)Side Dicks

Side Chicks and (Out)Side Dicks

In VLOGSPublish DateNovember 18, 2018Leave a comment Nana Darkoa

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Is monogamy a myth?

Is monogamy a myth?

In VLOGSPublish DateNovember 7, 2018Leave a comment Nana Darkoa

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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