A lady brought some second hand books to my office to sell. She had been there previously to sell books and I wasn’t interested in anything she had at the time. So I told her my preference in books…she came yesterday with books by Iyanla Vanzant, Maya Angelou, Alice Walker and Whoopi Goldberg. I already had a copy of the book she had brought by Maya (she is my favourite author in the whole wide world, one of my greatest wishes is to meet her so if you can hook up a sister I shall be ever grateful) so I did not purchase it. I had read the book she brought by Alice Walker but did not own it so purchased it anyway. Not a fan of Iyanla so left that behind. I was thinking to myself “why on earth would I want to read Whoopi Goldberg” so thought I would flip through the contents page. There was a chapter on sex so I scanned the chapter and I saw this:
“When I was younger I tried to go down on myself, with some success. I actually could reach, and I remember thinking that was a big deal, but I couldn’t do much down there. I could get to it, but that wasn’t enough. You have to be double- jointed and flexible and big into yoga if you want to get anything accomplished. I couldn’t really get off on just reaching. A lot of people have probably tried. (Shit I hope so; I just admitted I tried to eat myself out when I was a kid so y’all better be fallin’ in line right behind me.)I think guys have it easier, because their dicks are reaching back in the other direction; they’re helping out a little bit. It’s easier to get to dick than pussy, if it’s your dick or pussy. And with pussy you not only have to get down there, you have to kind of get down and around and underneath. You have to be able to see what you’re doing, get a feel for the area, spend some time with it, only with me it was just too fucking uncomfortable to keep at it. I was all curled and rolled into a ball and craning my neck like a long-necked dinosaur in the fetal position” Goldberg, W. (1997) Book. New York: Roy Weisbach Books, pp117-118
I had read enough. I bought the book.
What I liked about this piece is that Whoopi actually tried to get to know her pussy (or whatever name you call your vagina – check out Ms Kitty Kat’s post). How many of us try to know our pussy? What does it look like? What does it feel like? Dare I say, what does it taste like?
I was chatting to one of my male friends the other day; he hasn’t had intercourse this year, has recently broken up with his wife and he said to me “I miss eating pussy”. I thought (almost simultaneously) “Ahhh” and “I thought guys didn’t like going down, and only did it under duress”. Your thoughts?
Nana Darkoa
12 comments On Cunninglus or Getting to know yourself
I love love love getting head so i love men who love cunnilingus (there are some) 🙂 I especially like being kissed right after… I think sharing the taste with your partner is quite a turn-on (sorry if that sounded gross).
I’m not flexible enough to try auto-cunnilingus but am quite well acquainted with my ‘lady parts'(lol). Let’s just say we shake hands often 🙂
I enjoy going down on women. The problem is le hygiene. Not all women do a stellar job of keeping things clean. Still, I do it anyway because I selfishly want to pound my chest and say I made her cum. Yep, it’s all about the toe-curling and sheet-grabbing. Hehe, I wear the scratches on my arms with pride. There are some Ghanaian men though who swear to me that they will never go down on a woman. I don’t know how much of what they say is true but there’s hope. There are men out there who will go down on a woman wilfully and enjoy it.
hehehehe…. Ok Whoopi had me laughing. I think all women shd get to know their “whoo hoo’s”.. but not THAT intimately.. LOL.
Though I have never had an orgasm from cunnilingus, there is nothing more amazing and pleasurable than a man who enjoys licking P*ssy..
having a man raise his head from between my thighs, look up at me, with eyes eagerly seeking approval, checking if his actions are giving me pleasure. Its really a power trip. 🙂
lol… y’alll crzy.. anyway…. I dont really mind eating pussy.. the only thing is…if its not clean i definately wouldnt go anywhere near it.. you have to make it attractive 4 ur man to even think abt going down….
Shane – You go girl! That’s all I can say.
Awansona – Yay to toe curling and sheet grabbing. I have a question for you and BONTI – what exactly do you guys mean when you say the problem is hygiene? If you are going down on women who are having the “standard” two showers/baths a day then there should be no problem right? Ideally I like to have a shower just before sex but sometimes you end up sex first thing in the morning, straight after work, etc
BrownAngel – You have never come from cunninglus???Ahh! Surely there is something not happenning right. That is the surebanker way to orgasm ( at least so I thought!)
BONTI – Please see the question I posed to you above. When you say “you have to make it attractive” what exactly do you mean
Nana Darkoa
The hygiene is usually only a problem if a shower was skipped. Haven’t met a woman yet who had hygiene issues down there that could not be fixed with a quick shower (for two ;)).
i love for my pussy 2 get ate, 3 time a day best feeling it is. i love for my pussy to get ate. simple is that. love itttttttttttttttttt
As a young girl, from the age of ten to be exact. I begun to touch myself down there. I would watch movies and even a simple kiss on the tv would turn me on. When my parents were out, i’d go for a video tape and keep rewinding a particular sex scene while touching myself or rubbing on a pillow until i came. Indeed in between boyfreinds as an adult, I would do this just to get satisfied. The pleasure was so intense that I could come in a minute. This I believe helped me to get to know myself and be sexually expressive. i doubt that any partner of mine would consider me sexually repressed although I do NOT have nor have I ever engaged in anal sex.
Eating PUSSY is never a bad thing it`s the most ever sweet. Only with your partner or with a woman who knows the value not just with any woman you see. However, its neatness is so much important.
It’s interesting (going through this site) how you ladieis hide behind pseudo names to make your (liberating) points. Ironically! Hahahahaha!
The vagina is a self cleaning organ so a shower isn’t always necessary. If you maintain a good diet and decent hygiene otherwise you should be ever ready, that is beyond the personal comfort issues. As a bonafide cunning-linguist both giver & receiver, I have to say women you need to know how you taste if you expect anyone else woman or man to go there. So the next time you’re with a partner, or by yourself dip & lick.
I was married 25 years and a good estimate would be about 700 times I went-down on her. If she did not experience orgasm in sex, next time I would lick and tease her pussy. I ended and I miss eating pussy more than fucking… Really! I considered that making love in the greatest form. Yes, she would push on my shoulders occasionally to let me know, or make love to her vagina. The taste and the snuggling in the pussy is the greatest satisfaction of marriage and intimacy.