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Lady In Blue

In All CategoriesPublish DateAugust 1, 2025Leave a comment Guest

Written by Sheila Kal From the poetic series: Adding Colour to Water Soon, it’ll be three years since I buried my hair below the Mwarubaini you planted. I wouldn’t call it a ritual, Uncle; I only noticed the absence and the call neither of us could take. The man I want to love says I walk with grief in my eyes; a sadness so unique he would have no difficulty finding me in the dark. Sometimes, I want to ask …

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Call for Pitches: Share Your Adventurous Stories with Adventurous Women Magazine!

Call for Pitches: Share Your Adventurous Stories with Adventurous Women Magazine!

In All Categories, General IssuesPublish DateOctober 15, 2023Leave a comment Adventures Staff

Update: You spoke and we heard you! We’ve removed the age limit requirement for life lesson pitches. If you are a woman aged 20 and above, send us your pitch. Are you an African woman with …

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Element of Freedom

Element of Freedom

In All CategoriesPublish DateMay 10, 2022Leave a comment Naba the F*cking Goddess

“Nimechoka kupendwa kwa giza kama mihadarati” (I’m tired of being loved in the dark like illegal drugs) My best friend said this to me when we both got turned down at the same time by these …

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Holiday Rendezvous

Holiday Rendezvous

In All CategoriesPublish DateMarch 30, 2022Leave a comment Guest

“I can’t marry you.”  Those were the words that kept ringing in my head ever since he said them to me. My relationship of 3 years ended months ago and while everyone is talking about how …

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My Mother’s Daughter

My Mother’s Daughter

In All CategoriesPublish DateMarch 29, 20221 Comment Guest

Whenever my mother’s voice ricochets, I suddenly think of the first night I slept with a man. I think of the moments before he poured his sorrow in me – the ecstasy, the minute euphoria of …

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December Thrill

December Thrill

In All CategoriesPublish DateMarch 18, 2022Leave a comment Guest

Am I afraid to have children? Yes, definitely. Not because of the usual “having people depend on me” type of reason, but the ones along the lines of “if they have a spec of the mischief …

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BDSM Doesn’t Work For Me. What Else Is Hot?

BDSM Doesn’t Work For Me. What Else Is Hot?

In All Categories, SexualityPublish DateMarch 17, 20222 Comments Guest

Here’s the thing: polar hierarchies in sex don’t interest me. At all. I find nothing remotely desirable about being dominated or dominating someone else, mimicking rape or coercion, being hit or whipped. It’s not because I …

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How My Partner Outed Us In A Club

How My Partner Outed Us In A Club

In All Categories, General IssuesPublish DateMarch 11, 20222 Comments Guest

I’ve never been the outgoing type since the incident at college but this girl had me considering otherwise. She picked out one club on 3rd street downtown “The Twist”. Every Friday she’d pick me up from …

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I’m Grace Jones, Bitch!

I’m Grace Jones, Bitch!

In All CategoriesPublish DateFebruary 16, 20221 Comment Naba the F*cking Goddess

Part One: HOW TO MAKE A PORTIONPlaylist: I Get Lifted- Snoop Dogg, Wiz Khalifa “It’s witching time!” Open your doors and windowsLet the air flow freely through the entirety of your sacred spaceLight a candle and …

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My Brand Of Feminist Rage Reads ‘Kill All Men’

My Brand Of Feminist Rage Reads ‘Kill All Men’

In All CategoriesPublish DateFebruary 9, 20222 Comments Naba the F*cking Goddess

Let me tell you about this rage- I want to screamLoud and rawAnd scream and scream and screamOn and on and on Until this rage monster inside meThat has been conditioned toBe calm, legs togetherBe kind …

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Trans women are not the enemy. Patriarchy is.

Trans women are not the enemy. Patriarchy is.

In All Categories, General IssuesPublish DateJune 22, 20212 Comments Adventures Staff

Written by Fatima B. Derby Dear Adventurers,  I hope you have been keeping well? For me, the past week has been heart-wrenching as I have been forced to confront too many precarious lies and ugly truths. …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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  1. How Moms Are Using Cartoons and Nursery Rhymes To Break Sex Ed Taboos | Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women on Involving My Mother in My Relationship and Sex Life.August 10, 2025

    […] many Nigerian families, discussions about sex are often muted and shrouded in secrecy, deemed too sensitive for open dialogue.…

  2. Oladoyin on How Moms Are Using Cartoons and Nursery Rhymes To Break Sex Ed TaboosAugust 9, 2025

    This is extremely good and educative.

  3. Malaka on This Too Is MarriageAugust 6, 2025

    I absolutely loved this piece! This reminds me of those guys who request an open relationship/marriage and then discover that…

  4. Malaka on The InventionJuly 28, 2025

    "You don’t want to make me angry. The last time I was angry, I pushed someone and… I don’t want…

  5. R.R. on “I waited until 30 to have sex and I have some things to share…”July 4, 2025

    What I remember of my first time was that it shouldn’t have been him. It was one of the worst…

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