On a number of occasions, various researchers or journalists have asked me if I can introduce them to LGBTQI activists or organisations. I always struggle with requests like these. What are they looking for exactly I …
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You all know that I love to talk about sex right? And sexual rights, and the rights of every woman to have orgasms. Well the lovely Nana Ama gave Famia Nkansah, one of my fav (anonymous) Adventures …
Okay, so this is something I don’t mention much. Which is weird because I talk about everything sexual. But when people start talking about squirting around me I usually start finding the walls really fascinating. Why? …
Before I broke my hymen, I used to think I did not have a vagina. I would gaze down my lady parts with a magnifying face mirror and conclude I had no tunnel. Then the thin …
[Today marks the start of the #16Days of activism against gender based violence. Share your blog posts on the subject with us] Am in bliss; total relief; loving every moment in disbelief. Will the pain …
The subject of consent is one that I feel extremely passionate about. What is consent? And under what circumstances do we consent to sex? Can consent ever be taken for granted? Should consent always be vocalised, …
Next year my boyfriend and I are planning to try for another baby. I have mixed feelings about this. On one hand I see next year, the year that I turn 39, or as one of …
I feel very fortunate to have been invited as a guest to the 2016 edition of the Ake Arts & Book Festival. In a few hours I will be speaking on a panel entitled, ‘Legs Open, …
Having a good sex life isn’t something that just happens. Like any good skill, practice is needed before you reach the top of your game. But not just practicing in the physical form. Yes being sexual …
My friend and I were chatting recently about men who do not like to use condoms, or say that they loose their hard ons when they put on condoms. We both have experience with men who …