Until 2 months before my 23rd birthday I had never had sex. Despite all the rumours that had floated around me in Form 3 when my bosoms had suddenly blossomed, or the time that my boyfriend …
Category: General Issues
Issues that do not fit into our broad categories
Last week my bestie (not #BFFFL) and I bought these rings on Long Street in Cape Town. She picked her ring initially and showed it to me. My instinctive response was to say, ‘Oh no that …
Kojo: You’re usually first to cum, aren’t you? Nana Darkoa: Where is this coming from? Kojo: Oh oh! Nana Darkoa::). Why ‘oh oh’? I’m curious about the genesis of the question Kojo:Eish, the genesis of the …
I’m writing right now at the Cape Town International Convention Centre in South Africa, and thinking ahead to a plenary I will be participating in tomorrow morning. The plenary is on the topic of ‘The Politics …
Yes ladies, we’re going there today! It’s the thing that everyone does but hates to talk about and I’m not referring to farting 🙂 Ok, I agree- not everyone does it. Take my big sister for …
Dear Missie (short version of Mistress), You probably expect this to be another article that condemns you and tells you you’re a horrible person for banging another woman’s husband. You probably expect me to urge you …
My uncle raped me when I was four. Sometimes, I ask myself what he found so attractive about me at that age to make him do that to me. Was it my flat, unripe bosom? Or …
Polygamy is the devil. If you thought that the devil’s zipcode was hell, I am here to tell you that he has been residing and bedding our African society, for ages. It is time that we, …
[ I’m excited to post my first audio blog for Adventures. Hoping to introduce more innovation to the site. Enjoy the audio. And for those who like text, you still have that as an option. Please …
At an event in Accra a few weeks ago I saw this young man wearing a T shirt that says ‘Pussy Magnet’ (as pictured). I run after him and asked if I could take a picture …