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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

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Reader Query from Anna Saskin: Shall my boyfriend and I have a threesome?

Reader Query from Anna Saskin: Shall my boyfriend and I have a threesome?

In RelationshipsPublish DateJune 22, 201315 Comments Guest

My boyfriend and I toy around with the idea of a threesome. When we’re liquored up and lying languidly in bed after watching a film, the words come out that much more easily in between self-conscious …

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Guest Contributor Lois Lagos: Should I let my older male mentor buy me gifts ?

Guest Contributor Lois Lagos: Should I let my older male mentor buy me gifts ?

In General Issues, RelationshipsPublish DateJune 20, 201314 Comments Nana Darkoa

I have been propositioned by older men before. The last time it happened it was completely inappropriate, aside from the fact that I considered him to be a mentor he was also married. Recently one of …

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Love and the successful African woman

Love and the successful African woman

In RelationshipsPublish DateJune 11, 201328 Comments Nana Darkoa

I love this image. It captures the desire I sometimes feel to be held close and tight by someone who really cares for me. My multi-talented friend Amina gifted this image to me to accompany a …

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Guest Contributor Funmi Balogun: Sex and the ‘Oldish’ African Woman Series: Choice and my possibilities are endless®

Guest Contributor Funmi Balogun: Sex and the ‘Oldish’ African Woman Series: Choice and my possibilities are endless®

In RelationshipsPublish DateMay 2, 201322 Comments Guest

The title of this blog is a rearrangement of the International Planned Parenthood Federation’s Byline, ‘From Choice, a World of Possibilities’ as it is a byline I most identify with and within which I want to …

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I know my rights

I know my rights

In Creative Non Fiction, General Issues, Heterosexual, RelationshipsPublish DateApril 28, 201323 Comments Ekuba

Dear Kwasi, Anytime that I want to leave you I hear my mother’s voice say “I know you’re a lawyer but make sure you don’t become one of those I-know-my-rights-women. Aboa pete dze ne kwasia pe …

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What Makes You Come?

What Makes You Come?

In Heterosexual, Lesbian, Relationships, Sex Education, Sex ResearchPublish DateApril 26, 201326 Comments Voluptuous Voltarian

For the past couple of weeks, I have been asking my friends that particular question during our conversations about sex. Now, when I ask that question I’m not talking about the act of sex in general. …

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The Vibe Chronicles

The Vibe Chronicles

In General Issues, Heterosexual, RelationshipsPublish DateApril 18, 201336 Comments Voluptuous Voltarian

I bought my first B.O.B (battery-operated-boyfriend) when I was nineteen and in my first month of college. My friends and I went to the Red Light District and entered some sleazy sex shop owned by some …

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I Have Trouble Taking Money From My Husband

I Have Trouble Taking Money From My Husband

In RelationshipsPublish DateApril 17, 201325 Comments Malaka

My husband is a wonderful man and an excellent spouse. I’ve extolled his virtues on so many occasions that I’ve had to stop for fear of being accused of idol worship or braggadocio. After all, with …

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Podcast: ‘Surviving Sexual Abuse’, readings and discussions at Accra[dot]Alt’s Talk Party

Podcast: ‘Surviving Sexual Abuse’, readings and discussions at Accra[dot]Alt’s Talk Party

In General Issues, RelationshipsPublish DateApril 10, 201310 Comments Nana Darkoa

On Friday 29th March, 4 writer/poet friends (Nana Akosua Hanson, Nana Nyarko Boateng, Famia Nkansa and Kuukua Dzigbordi Yomekpe) and I, participated in an ‘Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women’ discussion on ‘Surviving Sexual Abuse’ …

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How wet can it get?

How wet can it get?

In General Issues, Heterosexual, RelationshipsPublish DateApril 2, 201329 Comments Voluptuous Voltarian

This is what he asked me as he traced the silky smoothness that had pooled beneath the bend of my knee and was dripping down the back of my calf. “Wet enough to make you feel …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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  1. Malaka on He’s Not Nonchalant, He’s Chalanting Elsewhere (Part 2)October 13, 2025

    This story was written by our fabulous staff writer, A. Duchess, but thanks for the compliment on her behalf! She…

  2. MIM on He’s Not Nonchalant, He’s Chalanting Elsewhere (Part 2)October 13, 2025

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    I just KNOW this story is going to end in premium heartbreak. *insert wailing emoji* Can't wait for part 2!

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