Written by Ayanlowo Eniiyi There’s scarcely a lesbian that hasn’t heard some variation of the tired old “you are not a real lesbian if you use a strap-on” argument. And honestly, what’s all the fuss about? This pleasure tool isn’t attached to a man, does great things for the cervix, and is capable of unlocking mind-blowing orgasms, provided you know what you are doing with it. Plus, let’s be real. Some of the funniest, although sometimes embarrassing, bedroom moments happen …
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We are flowers sprouting in a desert of homophobia. Our petals are bright, and our leaves have uncoiled, despite the cold. It is Nairobi in June. Everywhere you walk, we exist; some of us visible, others …
Your phone vibrates with a notification. You ignore it. You’re hungry as shit and trying to fix something to eat. It vibrates again and the sound irritates you. You don’t like that the sound interrupts Asake …
I kissed a girl, and I liked it. Her lips were soft against mine, her tongue; probing, exploring, and licking away my defenses.Shy at first, then getting deeper, hotter, and wetter.I had thought of what it would …
A young Ghanaian woman suppressed her desire for other women until she went to college in the US and shared an apartment with a Ghanaian authoritative lesbian. Linda promises Abby a good time if she ever …
Perhaps I have perchance mentioned that Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women is now an award winning podcast ? Yes? Just checking to make sure that you knew. Anyways, Nana and I were just recently …
I entered the stall and leaned against the wall for a second. I did not need to use the bathroom. I just needed to get away from her gaze. I wasn’t scared of her, no. She …
14th October 2022. “Go and finger the girl in green.” She said this between kisses, while I was straddling her. This confused me momentarily, because my girlfriend is very aware that I never make the first …
14th October 2022. Before the Party 18:30 We just got back from the beach. The plan for the day had been to go shopping at Makola, get herb at the beach and come home to rest …
By Billy Hani Fingering is often viewed as ‘less than’ in terms of penetrative sex. Due to heterosexual norms, ‘penetrative sex’ is only seen to be valid when it involves a penis. Otherwise, it is simply …