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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

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Shaved or Unshaved: How do you like it?

In General IssuesPublish DateJune 22, 2023Leave a comment Guest

By Billy Hani Does a shaved or unshaved vagina affect sexual pleasure? Yes? No? Maybe? I talked to a couple of vagina ‘havers’ and vagina lovers to see how they felt about it. As a vagina lover and haver, myself, I have never felt like it makes a difference. If I am dating someone who loves hair, I might keep it, if not I might shave it. But I have never felt like having hair on my vagina, or my …

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Show Me Your Flower

Show Me Your Flower

In General IssuesPublish DateDecember 29, 2022Leave a comment Guest

By Billy Hani ‘Kumamako’ is a popular Swahili insult, offline and online. ‘Kuma’ means vagina while ‘mamaku’ means your mother. No one takes it kindly when their mother is insulted. ‘Ther’ or ‘olundi’ is an insult …

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Vaginal Health 101: Vaginal Care Practices by Dziedorm

Vaginal Health 101: Vaginal Care Practices by Dziedorm

In Sex EducationPublish DateJuly 5, 20193 Comments Guest

Most people say “vagina” when what they’re really referring to is the vulva. The vulva is the external, visible part of your genitals — your labia (lips), clitoris, vaginal opening, and the opening to your urethra …

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Vagina vs Vulva: Does It Matter Which Word You Use?

Vagina vs Vulva: Does It Matter Which Word You Use?

In General IssuesPublish DateJune 14, 20196 Comments Adventures Staff

I recently followed an Instagram page called the.vulva.gallery which is basically an art gallery of vulvas of all kinds. Shortly after this discovery, I fell into the habit of taking random shots of parts of my …

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‘Wanted: A Community of Vaginas’ by Guest Contributor Efua

‘Wanted: A Community of Vaginas’ by Guest Contributor Efua

In General IssuesPublish DateFebruary 8, 20164 Comments Guest

My vagina needed a context of other vaginas – a community, a culture of vaginas. There’s so much darkness and secrecy surrounding them – like the Bermunda Triangle…. Paraphrased from the Vagina monologues      I …

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All I Want by Guest Contributor Spiritual

All I Want by Guest Contributor Spiritual

In Erotica, Fiction, General Issues, Heterosexual, RelationshipsPublish DateJune 21, 20154 Comments Adventures Staff

He  stepped into the room; she stood there in a short, black silk dress that clung to her like a suggestion, accentuating every captivating curve. He stood for a moment and simply watched her, taking in …

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Mandy’s Delight (I) by Guest Contributor Pamm

Mandy’s Delight (I) by Guest Contributor Pamm

In Erotica, Fiction, Heterosexual, RelationshipsPublish DateFebruary 20, 20157 Comments Adventures Staff

The house was awfully quiet for a Friday. Usually Mandy would be watching some ridiculous show and laughing her ass off. Idris locked the door behind him and made his way upstairs. Soon as he entered the …

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The Playful ‘Cousin’ I by Guest Contributor ASQ

The Playful ‘Cousin’ I by Guest Contributor ASQ

In Abstinence, General Issues, Heterosexual, UnderagePublish DateJanuary 6, 201514 Comments Adventures Staff

When I was a kid, I was physically more developed at a younger age than most of the kids in my classroom and my year group. By age 10, I was already 5’2″ and had started …

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Are You A Rosebud Or A Rose-In-Bloom? asks Guest Contributor Kalya

Are You A Rosebud Or A Rose-In-Bloom? asks Guest Contributor Kalya

In General IssuesPublish DateNovember 6, 201313 Comments Guest

I like flowers. They invoke feelings and thoughts of beauty and life; two aspects that wax and wane, not unlike the moon. I find floral prints quite charming but I’m pragmatic enough to acknowledge that too …

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‘No fingers in my vagina please’, says Guest Contributor Chili

‘No fingers in my vagina please’, says Guest Contributor Chili

In General IssuesPublish DateJuly 3, 201313 Comments Guest

First he kisses you on the lips. If he is any good he places his lips on yours first then parts your lips and seeks your tongue with his tongue.  If you are any good you …

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Guest Contributor African Mami: If my vagina could talk…

Guest Contributor African Mami: If my vagina could talk…

In General IssuesPublish DateAugust 13, 201210 Comments Guest

If she could talk,   Heeeeei! I’ve been deaf, dumb, and blind for a long time But now that I have been visited by Jesus, and healed of silence disease I will go tell it on …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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"Of course I'm not ashamed of you  Ohene."

After Selorm finally posts a photo of her and her partner, she's woken up by a very hurt Ohene, who cannot understand her aversion to post each other. All that's needed is an open honest discussion.

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"Of course I`m not ashamed of you Ohene."

After Selorm finally posts a photo of her and her partner, she`s woken up by a very hurt Ohene, who cannot understand her aversion to post each other. All that`s needed is an open honest discussion.

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Why do we never see fat asian women?

Obviously overweight Asian women DO exist, but Nobuhle recalls a moment that made her realise just how underrepresented they are - to the point where we as foreigners sometimes have to ask, "Do fat asian women exist?".

Check out The Fat and Horny Podcast by @becomingubu  on Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts.

Why do we never see fat asian women?

Obviously overweight Asian women DO exist, but Nobuhle recalls a moment that made her realise just how underrepresented they are - to the point where we as foreigners sometimes have to ask, "Do fat asian women exist?".

Check out The Fat and Horny Podcast by @becomingubu on Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts.
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"You know what’s funny but dangerously 
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When you have been raised by people who know only childbearing as their calling, you can see how any slight debate may turn you into an Outlaw.

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"You know what’s funny but dangerously
not funny?"

When you have been raised by people who know only childbearing as their calling, you can see how any slight debate may turn you into an Outlaw.

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"Make that baby ✨️SHINE!✨️"

You heard Guncle. Put a bow and some glitter on it, foolish boy.

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"Make that baby ✨️SHINE!✨️"

You heard Guncle. Put a bow and some glitter on it, foolish boy.

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"Once upon a time, we all had dreams."

Life changes very quickly and can make it difficult to hold onto the carefree and exciteable nature you had once entered the world with. But you can always find that love and pride once again.

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"Once upon a time, we all had dreams."

Life changes very quickly and can make it difficult to hold onto the carefree and exciteable nature you had once entered the world with. But you can always find that love and pride once again.

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"My mama taught me never to complain or talk back to a man."
When you've been taught to accept abuse since before you learned your name, will you ever reach a point where the abuse finally becomes unacceptable?

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"My mama taught me never to complain or talk back to a man."
When you`ve been taught to accept abuse since before you learned your name, will you ever reach a point where the abuse finally becomes unacceptable?

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"whatever

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"Always I Sing" is a poem from the ‘Rebel’ series Written by Highest Kite.

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Cockypops. What more needs to be said?

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"However, as the week winds down I begin to experience a different kinda throbbing."

With nothing but exhaustion seeping into your very bones day after day, sometimes all one needs is a little solo action to relieve the stress.

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"However, as the week winds down I begin to experience a different kinda throbbing."

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Facesitting fears as a fat woman
From Episode 5: Accepting my fatness helped improve my sex life.

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Facesitting fears as a fat woman
From Episode 5: Accepting my fatness helped improve my sex life.

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