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Published on: 31 August 2013 by in Creative Non Fiction, Gran, Heterosexual, Relationships
We did not use to kiss
Saturday, August 31st, 2013

    Chapter 2 of The Woman who Married Six and a Half Men Series The first time I saw a man and woman kissing, I was utterly terrified.  I gazed upon them with trepidation as they kissed passionately behind the plantain tree in the farm that was next to my grandmother’s farm. They could not see me watching them kiss because I myself was obscured by a vibrantly green plantain tree. It was the rainy season and so all the ...  [Read more]

Published on: 20 July 2013 by in Creative Non Fiction, Heterosexual
50 Shades of Black
Saturday, July 20th, 2013

When I met Tony, I never thought that our relationship would take the deliciously dark twist it later took. I’ve always loved good boys. The quickest way a man can get to my heart is by demonstrating how kind, loving and considerate he is. Tony fit the profile of the type of man I usually went in for. We met when we were both representing clients in a matter. I drove from my office with my client to meet him. He was working for a legal aid ...  [Read more]

Published on: 05 July 2013 by in Heterosexual, Relationships
‘Three is a party…’ says Guest Contributor Zanze Rose
Friday, July 5th, 2013

I thrust into my wife one more time and felt her muscles tightening and spasming as she came the second time that afternoon. Her knees gave out underneath her and as she lay there flat on her tummy, skin glistening with the light sheen, muscles twitching, I could see the pink of her pussy clenching. My cock throbbed longing to return to the warmth of what I’d be missing for the next twelve months … but I couldn’t, not yet. I had a plan and ...  [Read more]

Published on: 25 May 2013 by in General Issues, Heterosexual
Saturday, May 25th, 2013

...is what I said to my bestie as we were having another one of our transcontinental Skype conversations.  The thought had never dawned on me before, but in that moment it made perfect sense!  But let me backtrack and tell you how I arrived at that hypothesis..... My friend  (lets call her Akosua) has had a run of guys who are down with going down (the lucky thing, I'm not in the least bit jealous I swear :) I don't just mean they're happy ...  [Read more]

Published on: 28 April 2013 by in Creative Non Fiction, General Issues, Heterosexual, Relationships
I know my rights
Sunday, April 28th, 2013

Dear Kwasi, Anytime that I want to leave you I hear my mother’s voice say “I know you’re a lawyer but make sure you don’t become one of those I-know-my-rights-women. Aboa pete dze ne kwasia pe nyinkyer”. You see, baby, I don’t want to become one of those I-know-my-rights-women.  I don’t want to be a ‘liberated woman’ who refuses to submit to the Eurocentric standard of beauty and so walks around in styles she claims are ...  [Read more]

Friday, April 26th, 2013

For the past couple of weeks, I have been asking my friends that particular question during our conversations about sex. Now, when I ask that question I’m not talking about the act of sex in general. I am talking about triggers, the things that tip a person over the edge—you know, what me and my most-recent ex used to call the ‘Fiiiiniiish Himmmm!’ moves”. (Yes, you have to say it in the Mortal Kombat voice.) I mean, I think there ...  [Read more]

Published on: 18 April 2013 by in General Issues, Heterosexual, Relationships
Thursday, April 18th, 2013

I bought my first B.O.B (battery-operated-boyfriend) when I was nineteen and in my first month of college. My friends and I went to the Red Light District and entered some sleazy sex shop owned by some greasy old man. I was a student and didn’t have a lot of money so I bought a twenty-dollar toy. It was a cheap, plastic, ribbed, purple, straight and relatively small. It smelt like blueberries. I was still a virgin and didn’t want to ...  [Read more]

Published on: 13 April 2013 by in General Issues, Heterosexual
Reader query? I can’t go down on my fiancee…
Saturday, April 13th, 2013

I received the email below from Yaw a few days ago: Hi, I need help or sound advice. A lady introduced me to licking when i wanted to have sex with her as the key to the vagina. Seriously, i enjoyed it but she was the only person i had this experience with. Years down the line we broke up and i met another lady, when we got home and we were about to have sex i had a change of mind immediately because of the bad odour that emanated from ...  [Read more]

Published on: 08 April 2013 by in General Issues, Heterosexual
Monday, April 8th, 2013

I found my first Mills and Boon book at age eight. Someone had abandoned a bunch of dog-eared, moth-eaten, mouldy romance novels in a box in the corner of my house. When I landed upon them it was like I had completed my journey to the centre of the earth, chale. The men were always rich and handsome and damaged. The dating was always passionate. The sex was always hot. The women were always beautiful. The stories were always filled with longing ...  [Read more]

Published on: 02 April 2013 by in General Issues, Heterosexual, Relationships
Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013

This is what he asked me as he traced the silky smoothness that had pooled beneath the bend of my knee and was dripping down the back of my calf. “Wet enough to make you feel like you could drown” I answered. “Wet enough to fill a bathtub so I can swim in it?” “I think so. But would you want to?” “I would. I would slather that pussy juice all over my body like lotion. Then I would lick it off every part of my body that ...  [Read more]

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