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Published on: 29 January 2013 by in Heterosexual, Lesbian, Relationships
Tuesday, January 29th, 2013

I lie face down, ass in air, trying to drown out the grunts coming from behind me. My coochie is on fire and all my attention is focused on praying that this time I won’t have a slit when he is done. Balls slap my clit intermittently. I can’t concentrate enough to produce the pattern needed to induce my external orgasm. Earlier as we attempted foreplay, he said I looked indifferent. I had smiled apologetically at him, having no other ...  [Read more]

Published on: 28 January 2013 by in Creative Non Fiction, General Issues, Heterosexual, Relationships
Monday, January 28th, 2013

Yesterday, I confessed to my friends that till I met my boyfriend, all the guys I dated had some kind of forceful sexual intercourse with me. Ladies, you know what I’m talking about- the kind of sex where you don’t want to do it but he wants to and so he pounds away and you come out with bruises and tears. I thought I was alone but surprisingly, all my friends shared similar experiences. And that got me incensed. I’m pissed off that this ...  [Read more]

Published on: 24 January 2013 by in Fiction, Heterosexual
Thursday, January 24th, 2013

I was hungry that afternoon and the house was devoid of food. Save for the half bag of rice and the tins of oats, nothing was in the kitchen. Even if I were to decide to cook some rice, I might not be alive to see it through. We had recently moved to this new part of town, a relatively higher class vicinity than the one we moved from. Had we been at the former place, I wouldn’t be so bothered. Food vendors selling cheap coconut rice, or ewa ...  [Read more]

Published on: 22 January 2013 by in Creative Non Fiction, Heterosexual, Relationships
Tuesday, January 22nd, 2013

Okay it happened, on my birthday *which is why I no fit forget am; imagine, my birthday *smh. Anyway we planned the day carefully, luxurious 4-star hotel, Chinese food, dancing and hot sex after it all. We got to the hotel, booked into one of their suites and started pre smooching. Got over a nice quickie then started getting ready for dinner at the restaurant. The evening went so well, I didn’t dance as much as I wanted because he was horny ...  [Read more]

Published on: 14 January 2013 by in Fiction, Heterosexual
Monday, January 14th, 2013

“You gan, you be suwegbe!” Ibrahim hollered at me as I gazed, mouth agape at him. I was stark naked. We were stark naked. Me, Ibro, Sunday and Olu, all stark naked, and all clutching our phalluses which glistened in the semi-darkness, consequence of the Vaseline which we’ve so generously lavished on them. I was the youngest of the bunch, just fourteen. Ibrahim was the oldest and biggest, he was twenty. Olu was nineteen and Sunday eighteen. ...  [Read more]

Published on: 11 January 2013 by in Creative Non Fiction, Heterosexual
Friday, January 11th, 2013

I passed right through the noisy front den, aware of all the lascivious stares piercing through my legging-clad ass. I pulled my jacket closer to hide the fact that I wasn’t wearing a bra under my lace top; a deliberate attempt at seduction for who it was meant for. I walked straight to the opening that led into the sunken, dimly lit alcove where he said he would be. Vision was difficult and all I could see was a group of giggling Asian girls ...  [Read more]

Published on: 31 December 2012 by in Creative Non Fiction, Heterosexual
Monday, December 31st, 2012

Anisa, beautiful, average height, fashionable lady, about 24; She'd barged in on us at the temporary work place, somewhere in the middle of Tamale; a small room with 2 occupied desks and 4 work stations, while we were busy collecting data. She called out on one of my colleagues and while they had a subtle convo I eavesdropped keenly. The tag on her neck signified that she was a journalist. My eyes seemed to have wandered too long, from where ...  [Read more]

Published on: 28 December 2012 by in Heterosexual
Friday, December 28th, 2012

We sat in the car, he reached for my head, pulled me closer and kissed me again. He didn't want to stop, I was enjoying it; felt the wetness in my special lady parts *yes kissing gets me there. Good kissing ooo not just anything*. I felt his deep aroused breath as he leaned in more for the kiss. He reached around my short dress *yes it made me easy to access, no I no sheda wear am ;)*. The good girl in me, who has been virtually stifled these ...  [Read more]

Published on: 24 December 2012 by in General Issues, Heterosexual
Monday, December 24th, 2012

One evening when my lover came round for our regular evening visit I made a joke that I would strip for him. This sparked his interest and of course he wanted me to act on it and surprisingly though I tried to joke my way out of it I wanted to do it to. Its not a big deal to some but I've never given anyone a lap dance, none of my past boyfriends not even the long term ones...although thinking about it now many of them wanted me to give them ...  [Read more]

Published on: 19 December 2012 by in Heterosexual, Relationships
Wednesday, December 19th, 2012

I took a one hour trotro trip just to meet up with him. I knew right from the moment he said he’ll be somewhere close to my Region; I wanted to get down and dirty with him. I’d tried a steamy one hour make-out session with him about two months ago and I felt no spark. After much deliberation and consultation, it was agreed *among selected women-folk of mine* to give him a second try. Maybe I wasn’t in the right frame of mind then. I mean, ...  [Read more]

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