Wow! In a few days time it will be Adventures’s 2nd anniversary and what an exciting two years this has been. I have had so many positive experiences with Adventures -  which has included meeting new people, growing more confident in my own sexuality and writing for the likes of Dust Magazine and Dream Weddings. Its been a wonderful 2 year journey and I thank all of you for being on this journey with us. I especially want to thank all our contributors – those I know and those who are complete strangers to me.  I want to thank you for your honesty, your openness and your generosity in sharing your stories without fear. I …

On Friday the 4th of December I will be participating in a blog reading at Expressions which takes place in Smoothys, Oxford Street. In the 11 months that this blog has been active I have had numerous guest contributions which in my opinion is a major factor in the success of the blog.
Can you imagine Adventures without Anthony’s chart topping “How to eat pussy…from the Givers Perspective”, or Darian’s “Good Christian Girls Don’t Have Sex” or or Esi Cleland’s “Two things you learn about Ghanaian men by walking the streets”.
It will be great if I could get a small team to read for “Adventures”, if you have ever guest contributed for this blog, live …

There are so many posts I want to write and I don’t know which one to focus on next so I am taking votes through your comments:
1. Shall I write on sex during your period – in this post I want to explore the notion of taboo and sex whilst menstruating.
2. Good Girls don’t have sex if they want to get married or have a relationship – in a recent conversation with some of my girls many of them said they had decided not to have sex for some time. As one of them said and I paraphrase “why would you want to pay for the cow when you already have it for free”.
3.Sex and …