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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

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Tag: desire

Strap-on Confessions

In LesbianPublish DateFebruary 17, 2025Leave a comment Guest

Written by Ayanlowo Eniiyi There’s scarcely a lesbian that hasn’t heard some variation of the tired old “you are not a real lesbian if you use a strap-on” argument. And honestly, what’s all the fuss about? This pleasure tool isn’t attached to a man, does great things for the cervix, and is capable of unlocking mind-blowing orgasms, provided you know what you are doing with it. Plus, let’s be real. Some of the funniest, although sometimes embarrassing, bedroom moments happen …

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YEARNING

YEARNING

In EroticaPublish DateDecember 4, 2024Leave a comment Guest

Written by Moraa. Three months without your touch,seems minimal, but is much.My memory of you is outstanding,your painful absence notwithstanding. I touch myself to thoughts of you,I cum hard but still feel blue.I wish the world …

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Understanding The Odyssey of Desire

Understanding The Odyssey of Desire

In All Categories, General IssuesPublish DateJuly 17, 2020Leave a comment Adventures Staff

If Desire was a picture, what picture comes to your mind? A shimmery amorphous mass of fairy dust floating in the starry sky of a black universe leaving an incense of powerful orgasms? A primal erotic …

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‘Brown-eyed Woman’ by Guest Contributor Joyline

‘Brown-eyed Woman’ by Guest Contributor Joyline

In LesbianPublish DateDecember 24, 2017Leave a comment Guest

For reasons, reason knows nothing of I have taken a strong liking to you. I swoon over you with reckless abandon. Hypnotic thoughts of you are a torment. Your friends, your family, Your hobbies, your sexual …

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Sex and the Differently Abled African Woman

Sex and the Differently Abled African Woman

In RelationshipsPublish DateOctober 13, 20168 Comments Malaka

Ever since I moved back to the Continent (I live in the Western Cape of South South Africa), I’ve found myself spending more time indulging in one of my favorite pastimes: People watching. There is a …

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‘Pleasure squared’ by Guest Contributor Naike

‘Pleasure squared’ by Guest Contributor Naike

In LesbianPublish DateJuly 22, 20168 Comments Guest

My head is resting on a brick wall and I am standing in front of her. I indeed need support to hold my body up because I am using all my effort to stop trembling. We …

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‘What I want you to do to me’ by Eleanor T.K.

‘What I want you to do to me’ by Eleanor T.K.

In General IssuesPublish DateDecember 19, 20152 Comments Guest

Read ‘What I want you to do to me’ by Nana Darkoa here, Wolverine’s contribution here and D’s contribution here What do you want your lover to do to you? Tell us via adventuresfrom [at] gmail …

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A reply to, ‘What I want you to do to me’ by Guest Contributor Wolverine

A reply to, ‘What I want you to do to me’ by Guest Contributor Wolverine

In General IssuesPublish DateNovember 13, 2015Leave a comment Guest

Wolverine sent me her response to my post of yesterday, ‘What I want you to do to me’, and I thought, what a great idea. How about we make this a bit of a thing. Think …

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Desire: Questions and Answers

Desire: Questions and Answers

In General IssuesPublish DateSeptember 8, 20149 Comments Nana Darkoa

One of my friends is a PhD student in a Canadian university and she shared on social media recently some questions that one of her Professors had posed in a recent class. I loved the questions …

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The relationship between power and sex is most evident to me when…

The relationship between power and sex is most evident to me when…

In General IssuesPublish DateOctober 11, 20125 Comments Nana Darkoa

I’m sharing another writing exercise my Fab Fem group did a while ago. Why don’t you share your own response. “The relationship between power and sex is most evident to you when…” Send me your post …

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Researching women’s desires and sexuality

Researching women’s desires and sexuality

In Sex ResearchPublish DateFebruary 15, 20095 Comments Nana Darkoa

I want to thank one of the readers of this blog for drawing my attention to an article on the NYTimes.com website by Daniel Bergner “What do Women Want? – Discovering What Ignites Female Desire”. This …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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    by aqstudiosafrica on July 23, 2024 at 12:37 pm
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    by aqstudiosafrica on July 23, 2024 at 12:36 pm
  • Yomi Adegoke: Being ‘A Wholesome Babe’ Who Also Loves Writing About Sex
    by aqstudiosafrica on July 23, 2024 at 12:36 pm
  • New Mom, Hot Takes: Audrey Indome's Bedroom Chronicles
    by aqstudiosafrica on July 23, 2024 at 12:35 pm
  • The Dating Olympics
    by aqstudiosafrica on November 20, 2023 at 3:16 pm

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  1. R.R. on “I waited until 30 to have sex and I have some things to share…”July 4, 2025

    What I remember of my first time was that it shouldn’t have been him. It was one of the worst…

  2. Anon on My Unsolicited Soliloquy on Self-Discovery As A Feminist African WomanJune 25, 2025

    Highly highly relatable. Im in my 40s and still trying to recover.

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    This was such an honest and beautiful read. I can relate to you story. Men ehhh. God abeg

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