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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

Tag: first time

Purity Culture Ruins African Women's Sex

The Dangers of Bad PR for Sex (2)

In General Issues, SeriesPublish DateAugust 6, 2021Leave a comment Bilquis

There are a lot of weird nicknames for the hoo-ha. I don’t like to call mine ‘pussy’, I find ‘vajayjay’ hilarious and I don’t feel any connection with any of the other nicknames I found online. But with ‘pink panther’, it just makes sense. It fits what it feels like and what the journey to discovering it is becoming. So far, I had only rubbed myself around the surface of the entire area – no direct contact most times, just …

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‘The Complications of Being A Shrewd Virgin’ by Guest Contributor Eleanor T.K

‘The Complications of Being A Shrewd Virgin’ by Guest Contributor Eleanor T.K

In General IssuesPublish DateAugust 1, 201413 Comments Guest

Certain words flow in vein with the term virgin; naïve, unadulterated, pure, immature, wet-behind-the-ears etc. None of these words would appropriately describe me. I don’t need to be told not to drink in the company of …

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Guest Contributor Anaximander: Her First Time

Guest Contributor Anaximander: Her First Time

In Fiction, HeterosexualPublish DateJanuary 24, 201345 Comments Guest

I was hungry that afternoon and the house was devoid of food. Save for the half bag of rice and the tins of oats, nothing was in the kitchen. Even if I were to decide to …

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Guest Contributor Ejike Anaximandar: Na You Give Oga Daughter Bele?

Guest Contributor Ejike Anaximandar: Na You Give Oga Daughter Bele?

In Fiction, HeterosexualPublish DateJanuary 14, 201329 Comments Guest

“You gan, you be suwegbe!” Ibrahim hollered at me as I gazed, mouth agape at him. I was stark naked. We were stark naked. Me, Ibro, Sunday and Olu, all stark naked, and all clutching our …

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Guest Contributor Hitchedyke: My First time (that never was)

Guest Contributor Hitchedyke: My First time (that never was)

In Lesbian, RelationshipsPublish DateJune 8, 20127 Comments Guest

A girls virginity is something to be treasured right? (well that’s what they say anyway). People build such anticipation for that first time you give yourself to someone. Will you enjoy it? Will it be painful? …

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Guest Contributor Afua: “Virginity and first time falsehood”

Guest Contributor Afua: “Virginity and first time falsehood”

In General IssuesPublish DateJune 15, 201110 Comments Guest

I am a sexually experienced woman who has had her fair share of sexual partners. I’m lucky to be able to say that most of it has been great sex. But it hasn’t always been that …

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My First Time: by Jessica Ibhulu

My First Time: by Jessica Ibhulu

In LesbianPublish DateDecember 21, 20107 Comments Guest

Ok d first girl i ever did was my ex boyfriends cousin….. She used to come to his house a lot to keep me company wenever I was at his place….. So there was dis period he installed …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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