Are there double standards around men and women’s sexualities? How true is this in Ghana and Africa? Why do men cheat? Why do women cheat? How does society respond when a man cheats? How is this …
Author: Nana Darkoa
The recent conversations on visits to the Ob/Gyn have somehow led to the subject of virginity and associated issues such as, who is a virgin? Someone who has never had sex? Someone whose hymen is intact …
If you are a regular reader of this blog you will know that I like to look at African women’s sexualities in all its diversityand breadth. I recently found out that Dr Sylvia Tamale based at …
It’s been four months, one week and two days. I’ve been craving, having vivid dreams, praying, begging God to make the months move a little faster. God, has it only been four months, one week and …
I am so thrilled! I just read in Pambazuka of the first hospital in Burkina Faso, “The Pleasure Hospital” that is reconstructing clitorises for women who have been subjected to female genital mutilation. Since I started …
How soon shall I tell a guy (who is interested in me) that I blog about sex and sexuality? Sometimes the subject of blogging never comes up at all yet there have been three occasions where …
We walk into “The Love Shack” and we’re welcomed by a be-tattoed “biker looking” woman who wants to know if there is anything in particular we’re looking for. I am with my co-contributor on this blog …
Good girls don’t have sex if they want to get married or have a relationship. I think Emz who commented on the previous post hit the nail on the head when she said, that’s “the African …
There are so many posts I want to write and I don’t know which one to focus on next so I am taking votes through your comments: 1. Shall I write on sex during your period …
Shane asked on a post some weeks ago if I could write a post on the merits of Mechanical versus Manual Stimulation so here goes… For me pleasurable sex is all about my clit. Seriously, you …