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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

Author: Nana Darkoa

Double standards around sexualities?

Double standards around sexualities?

In RelationshipsPublish DateMay 30, 200910 Comments Nana Darkoa

Are there double standards around men and women’s sexualities? How true is this in Ghana and Africa? Why do men cheat? Why do women cheat? How does society respond when a man cheats? How is this …

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On the subject of Virgins and Virginity

On the subject of Virgins and Virginity

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 25, 200914 Comments Nana Darkoa

The recent conversations on visits to the Ob/Gyn have somehow led to the subject of virginity and associated issues such as, who is a virgin? Someone who has never had sex? Someone whose hymen is intact …

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Your contribution to a “Reader on African Sexualities”

Your contribution to a “Reader on African Sexualities”

In Sex ResearchPublish DateMay 17, 200913 Comments Nana Darkoa

If you are a regular reader of this blog you will know that I like to look at African women’s sexualities in all its diversityand breadth. I recently found out that Dr Sylvia Tamale based at …

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Guest Contributor Ms A on Celibacy, Temptation and Sex

Guest Contributor Ms A on Celibacy, Temptation and Sex

In AbstinencePublish DateMay 14, 20097 Comments Nana Darkoa

It’s been four months, one week and two days. I’ve been craving, having vivid dreams, praying, begging God to make the months move a little faster. God, has it only been four months, one week and …

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FGM and Sex: Does sex ever become pleasurable?

FGM and Sex: Does sex ever become pleasurable?

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 11, 20095 Comments Nana Darkoa

I am so thrilled! I just read in Pambazuka of the first hospital in Burkina Faso, “The Pleasure Hospital” that is reconstructing clitorises for women who have been subjected to female genital mutilation. Since I started …

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Dating a sexuality blogger?

Dating a sexuality blogger?

In RelationshipsPublish DateMay 9, 200921 Comments Nana Darkoa

How soon shall I tell a guy (who is interested in me) that I blog about sex and sexuality? Sometimes the subject of blogging never comes up at all yet there have been three occasions where …

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Shopping for Sex Toys

Shopping for Sex Toys

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 6, 20094 Comments Nana Darkoa

We walk into “The Love Shack” and we’re welcomed by a be-tattoed “biker looking” woman who wants to know if there is anything in particular we’re looking for. I am with my co-contributor on this blog …

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Good Girls don’t have sex if…

Good Girls don’t have sex if…

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 26, 200911 Comments Nana Darkoa

Good girls don’t have sex if they want to get married or have a relationship. I think Emz who commented on the previous post hit the nail on the head when she said, that’s “the African …

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What shall I blog on next?

What shall I blog on next?

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 23, 200910 Comments Nana Darkoa

There are so many posts I want to write and I don’t know which one to focus on next so I am taking votes through your comments: 1. Shall I write on sex during your period …

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To Vibrate or not to Vibrate: The merits of Mechanical versus Manual Stimulation

To Vibrate or not to Vibrate: The merits of Mechanical versus Manual Stimulation

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 19, 20097 Comments Nana Darkoa

Shane asked on a post some weeks ago if I could write a post on the merits of Mechanical versus Manual Stimulation so here goes… For me pleasurable sex is all about my clit. Seriously, you …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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"Of course I'm not ashamed of you  Ohene."

After Selorm finally posts a photo of her and her partner, she's woken up by a very hurt Ohene, who cannot understand her aversion to post each other. All that's needed is an open honest discussion.

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"Of course I`m not ashamed of you Ohene."

After Selorm finally posts a photo of her and her partner, she`s woken up by a very hurt Ohene, who cannot understand her aversion to post each other. All that`s needed is an open honest discussion.

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Why do we never see fat asian women?

Obviously overweight Asian women DO exist, but Nobuhle recalls a moment that made her realise just how underrepresented they are - to the point where we as foreigners sometimes have to ask, "Do fat asian women exist?".

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Why do we never see fat asian women?

Obviously overweight Asian women DO exist, but Nobuhle recalls a moment that made her realise just how underrepresented they are - to the point where we as foreigners sometimes have to ask, "Do fat asian women exist?".

Check out The Fat and Horny Podcast by @becomingubu on Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts.
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"You know what’s funny but dangerously 
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When you have been raised by people who know only childbearing as their calling, you can see how any slight debate may turn you into an Outlaw.

Click the links in our stories and bio to read Outlaws; a poem from Highest Kite's Rebel series!

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"You know what’s funny but dangerously
not funny?"

When you have been raised by people who know only childbearing as their calling, you can see how any slight debate may turn you into an Outlaw.

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"Make that baby ✨️SHINE!✨️"

You heard Guncle. Put a bow and some glitter on it, foolish boy.

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"Make that baby ✨️SHINE!✨️"

You heard Guncle. Put a bow and some glitter on it, foolish boy.

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"Once upon a time, we all had dreams."

Life changes very quickly and can make it difficult to hold onto the carefree and exciteable nature you had once entered the world with. But you can always find that love and pride once again.

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"Once upon a time, we all had dreams."

Life changes very quickly and can make it difficult to hold onto the carefree and exciteable nature you had once entered the world with. But you can always find that love and pride once again.

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"My mama taught me never to complain or talk back to a man."
When you've been taught to accept abuse since before you learned your name, will you ever reach a point where the abuse finally becomes unacceptable?

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"My mama taught me never to complain or talk back to a man."
When you`ve been taught to accept abuse since before you learned your name, will you ever reach a point where the abuse finally becomes unacceptable?

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"whatever

My face is wet

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My heart is heavy

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"Always I Sing" is a poem from the ‘Rebel’ series Written by Highest Kite.

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"whatever

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whatever"

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Cockypops. What more needs to be said?

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"However, as the week winds down I begin to experience a different kinda throbbing."

With nothing but exhaustion seeping into your very bones day after day, sometimes all one needs is a little solo action to relieve the stress.

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"However, as the week winds down I begin to experience a different kinda throbbing."

With nothing but exhaustion seeping into your very bones day after day, sometimes all one needs is a little solo action to relieve the stress.

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Facesitting fears as a fat woman
From Episode 5: Accepting my fatness helped improve my sex life.

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Facesitting fears as a fat woman
From Episode 5: Accepting my fatness helped improve my sex life.

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