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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

Author: Nana Darkoa

Cunninglus or Getting to know yourself

Cunninglus or Getting to know yourself

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 9, 200912 Comments Nana Darkoa

A lady brought some second hand books to my office to sell. She had been there previously to sell books and I wasn’t interested in anything she had at the time. So I told her my …

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He Killed Our Relationship with a Kiss

He Killed Our Relationship with a Kiss

In RelationshipsPublish DateApril 6, 200921 Comments Nana Darkoa

Arguably, one could say that many relationships are determined by that first kiss. I am of the opinion that a kiss, like a person’s eyes, is a window into that person’s soul. How does your man …

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Abstinence in a sex obsessed world?

Abstinence in a sex obsessed world?

In AbstinencePublish DateApril 1, 200911 Comments Nana Darkoa

A post on abstinence on a blog that seeks to provide a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more… Well, why not? When I read the request to write a post on abstinence …

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Sex and your parents

Sex and your parents

In RelationshipsPublish DateMarch 30, 200910 Comments Nana Darkoa

I remember many years ago my friend telling me that she asked her Mum if she had ever given her Dad a blow job. Her Mum did not know what a blow job was so my …

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Fantasising: Sick or not?

Fantasising: Sick or not?

In General IssuesPublish DateMarch 29, 200945 Comments Nana Darkoa

My last post has had one of the fewest responses ever…it took over a week to get a second comment (and what a great comment that was). I was speaking to Mr L during the week …

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My Secret Garden: African women’s sexual fantasies

My Secret Garden: African women’s sexual fantasies

In Sex ResearchPublish DateMarch 21, 200910 Comments Nana Darkoa

Ages ago a male friend told me about a book he had read, “My Secret Garden” by Nancy Friday. According to him the book was a real turn on so off I trotted to the bookshop …

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Sex education for adults?

Sex education for adults?

In Sex EducationPublish DateMarch 20, 200914 Comments Nana Darkoa

Today I delivered a guest lecture to students at a 6th form college and one of them came up to me and said “Are you the same person who writes on the blog Adventures from”? My …

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Guest Blogger Ms Money Penny: Love your body and have great sex!

Guest Blogger Ms Money Penny: Love your body and have great sex!

In General IssuesPublish DateMarch 14, 20094 Comments Nana Darkoa

The quality of sex you have with your lover/partner can be greatly improved by the amount of self confidence you have which comes from amongst other things, loving your body. I personally can share a few …

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Sex outside the bedroom

Sex outside the bedroom

In General IssuesPublish DateMarch 13, 200914 Comments Nana Darkoa

Over dinner and drinks with my girlfriends yesterday the subject turned to men and sex. In terms of our sexual “tastes” the menu was diverse. There was of course: The “sex and sexuality blogger“, yours truly …

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Guest Blogger Ms MoneyPenny on “Making Love versus Having Sex”

Guest Blogger Ms MoneyPenny on “Making Love versus Having Sex”

In General IssuesPublish DateMarch 10, 20092 Comments Nana Darkoa

I met Dark Skinned Brother (DSB) on a night out with friends and immediately our conversation was underpinned with sexual undertones. He was confident, strong, bold and very sexy. His voice always got to me…..deep and …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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"Of course I'm not ashamed of you  Ohene."

After Selorm finally posts a photo of her and her partner, she's woken up by a very hurt Ohene, who cannot understand her aversion to post each other. All that's needed is an open honest discussion.

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"Of course I`m not ashamed of you Ohene."

After Selorm finally posts a photo of her and her partner, she`s woken up by a very hurt Ohene, who cannot understand her aversion to post each other. All that`s needed is an open honest discussion.

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Why do we never see fat asian women?

Obviously overweight Asian women DO exist, but Nobuhle recalls a moment that made her realise just how underrepresented they are - to the point where we as foreigners sometimes have to ask, "Do fat asian women exist?".

Check out The Fat and Horny Podcast by @becomingubu  on Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts.

Why do we never see fat asian women?

Obviously overweight Asian women DO exist, but Nobuhle recalls a moment that made her realise just how underrepresented they are - to the point where we as foreigners sometimes have to ask, "Do fat asian women exist?".

Check out The Fat and Horny Podcast by @becomingubu on Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts.
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"You know what’s funny but dangerously 
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When you have been raised by people who know only childbearing as their calling, you can see how any slight debate may turn you into an Outlaw.

Click the links in our stories and bio to read Outlaws; a poem from Highest Kite's Rebel series!

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"You know what’s funny but dangerously
not funny?"

When you have been raised by people who know only childbearing as their calling, you can see how any slight debate may turn you into an Outlaw.

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"Make that baby ✨️SHINE!✨️"

You heard Guncle. Put a bow and some glitter on it, foolish boy.

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"Make that baby ✨️SHINE!✨️"

You heard Guncle. Put a bow and some glitter on it, foolish boy.

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"Once upon a time, we all had dreams."

Life changes very quickly and can make it difficult to hold onto the carefree and exciteable nature you had once entered the world with. But you can always find that love and pride once again.

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"Once upon a time, we all had dreams."

Life changes very quickly and can make it difficult to hold onto the carefree and exciteable nature you had once entered the world with. But you can always find that love and pride once again.

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"My mama taught me never to complain or talk back to a man."
When you've been taught to accept abuse since before you learned your name, will you ever reach a point where the abuse finally becomes unacceptable?

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"My mama taught me never to complain or talk back to a man."
When you`ve been taught to accept abuse since before you learned your name, will you ever reach a point where the abuse finally becomes unacceptable?

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"whatever

My face is wet

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My heart is heavy

  whatever"

"Always I Sing" is a poem from the ‘Rebel’ series Written by Highest Kite.

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"whatever

My face is wet

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My heart is heavy

whatever"

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Cockypops. What more needs to be said?

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"However, as the week winds down I begin to experience a different kinda throbbing."

With nothing but exhaustion seeping into your very bones day after day, sometimes all one needs is a little solo action to relieve the stress.

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"However, as the week winds down I begin to experience a different kinda throbbing."

With nothing but exhaustion seeping into your very bones day after day, sometimes all one needs is a little solo action to relieve the stress.

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Facesitting fears as a fat woman
From Episode 5: Accepting my fatness helped improve my sex life.

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Facesitting fears as a fat woman
From Episode 5: Accepting my fatness helped improve my sex life.

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