The V-Day organization has asked 1 billion people to rise “to show the world our collective strength, our numbers, our solidarity across borders” and renew efforts to end violence against women. I would like to suggest …
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Issues that do not fit into our broad categories
I like the idea of an alternative valentine’s day…like many of you I believe we should show love every day, and not on one day that has become overly commercialised. At the same time I think …
Yesterday, I confessed to my friends that till I met my boyfriend, all the guys I dated had some kind of forceful sexual intercourse with me. Ladies, you know what I’m talking about- the kind of …
Don’t even know how I got orally fixated That’s my current affliction, I’m crazily addicted Just dying for the dangerous tongue tricks I’d kill for those clit licks It was you doing the chasing at first, …
I met Yewande Omotoso when I was lucky enough to participate in Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche’s ‘Farafina Trust’ workshop. (Yewande shared her experiences of the workshop via ‘Africa is a Country‘) Meeting Yewande was like meeting a …
In a few hours it will be 2013, and a few weeks into 2013 it will be 4 years since Malaka and I started this blog. 4 years ago in my introductory post I shared what …
If all your secret sexy fantasies could come true what would be on your sex Christmas wishlist? Mine would include: * Being tied with silk scarves to my iron wrought bed, and being made to cum …
One evening when my lover came round for our regular evening visit I made a joke that I would strip for him. This sparked his interest and of course he wanted me to act on it …
Yesterday, over drinks with new friends, I was telling the story of a close friend who went on a ‘boy’s trip’ to Brazil. The highlight of his story (which I’ll admit I was retelling with a …
An extract from a whatsapp conversation between an ‘ex’ and I… I learned I have delayed/impaired ejaculation. I get and stay up easily, but as you always saw…nothing. Then I started thinking of myself pre-masturbation (before …