I met Yewande Omotoso when I was lucky enough to participate in Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche’s ‘Farafina Trust’ workshop. (Yewande shared her experiences of the workshop via ‘Africa is a Country‘) Meeting Yewande was like meeting a …
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In a few hours it will be 2013, and a few weeks into 2013 it will be 4 years since Malaka and I started this blog. 4 years ago in my introductory post I shared what …
If all your secret sexy fantasies could come true what would be on your sex Christmas wishlist? Mine would include: * Being tied with silk scarves to my iron wrought bed, and being made to cum …
One evening when my lover came round for our regular evening visit I made a joke that I would strip for him. This sparked his interest and of course he wanted me to act on it …
Yesterday, over drinks with new friends, I was telling the story of a close friend who went on a ‘boy’s trip’ to Brazil. The highlight of his story (which I’ll admit I was retelling with a …
An extract from a whatsapp conversation between an ‘ex’ and I… I learned I have delayed/impaired ejaculation. I get and stay up easily, but as you always saw…nothing. Then I started thinking of myself pre-masturbation (before …
I have never associated sexual acts with any local Ghanaian language. Sex for me has always been synonymous with the English language. I have never questioned why. I have never even been conscious of this fact …
Exhale Be relaxed My body languid My mind at ease Be free Free to be with my lover Whomever that may be Free to express my desire Whatever that may be Free to say… Stop Do …
Never judge a book by its cover, until you have read its pages. Often times we make snap judgments on the precept of them being human in nature. Take for example, Anyango in downtown Nairobi, flagging down …
Hiya, I just got a copy of the PDF of my ‘Sex in Utopia’ article which is published in the current (October-December) edition of the BBC Focus on Africa magazine…its a bit hard to read in …