Over dinner and drinks with my girlfriends yesterday the subject turned to men and sex. In terms of our sexual “tastes” the menu was diverse. There was of course: The “sex and sexuality blogger“, yours truly …
Category: General Issues
Issues that do not fit into our broad categories
I met Dark Skinned Brother (DSB) on a night out with friends and immediately our conversation was underpinned with sexual undertones. He was confident, strong, bold and very sexy. His voice always got to me…..deep and …
In a few minutes it will be International Women’s Day (that’s assuming you live in the same time zone as I do). On this day I wish for all women: The right to safer sex The …
One of the commenter’s on a previous post wanted to know our thoughts on anal sex, pornography and sex toys. I can’t speak for Abena so as usual I shall speak for myself. Anal Sex – …
Whoopi Goldberg refers to hers as a Punany, six-year old Kate calls hers tata, Annie cheekily calls hers her va jay jay, Steve calls mine a Punkie and Dufie calls hers a pussy. I don’t have …
Yesterday, myself and two of my girlfriends watched a production of The Vagina Monologues at the Efua Sutherland Theatre, University of Ghana, Legon. I was keen to watch the production, especially because The Vagina Monologues was …
Love making, sex, shagging, intercourse, fu*king, boning … do they describe the same act? I would argue not. For me making love depicts an act of tenderness. I imagine candles, soft music, clean sheets, massage oils …
A reader of this blog asked me ‘So, how did you get so confident?’. I guess what she really meant was, how did you become so bold in writing about sex? The fact is, I don’t …
Hmmm, does penis size matter? That’s the question one of the ‘commenters’ on this blog wants us to answer. Before I can really answer this question I need to think of some of the different penises …
We decided that since neither of us had encountered every penis on the planet (and who would want to?) it might be a good idea to do susu with our experiences and put them in one …