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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

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Shopping for Sex Toys

Shopping for Sex Toys

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 6, 20094 Comments Nana Darkoa

We walk into “The Love Shack” and we’re welcomed by a be-tattoed “biker looking” woman who wants to know if there is anything in particular we’re looking for. I am with my co-contributor on this blog …

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Things your vibrator will/can never do for/to you

Things your vibrator will/can never do for/to you

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 1, 200910 Comments Malaka

Vibrators (or toys in general) and their use seem to be quite the hot topic on this blog! One viewer’s reaction to my pondering on how my husband would feel if I bought one really struck …

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Good Girls don’t have sex if…

Good Girls don’t have sex if…

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 26, 200911 Comments Nana Darkoa

Good girls don’t have sex if they want to get married or have a relationship. I think Emz who commented on the previous post hit the nail on the head when she said, that’s “the African …

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What shall I blog on next?

What shall I blog on next?

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 23, 200910 Comments Nana Darkoa

There are so many posts I want to write and I don’t know which one to focus on next so I am taking votes through your comments: 1. Shall I write on sex during your period …

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To Vibrate or not to Vibrate: The merits of Mechanical versus Manual Stimulation

To Vibrate or not to Vibrate: The merits of Mechanical versus Manual Stimulation

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 19, 20097 Comments Nana Darkoa

Shane asked on a post some weeks ago if I could write a post on the merits of Mechanical versus Manual Stimulation so here goes… For me pleasurable sex is all about my clit. Seriously, you …

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Guest Blogger Nana Yaw Asiedu on eating “Melons”

Guest Blogger Nana Yaw Asiedu on eating “Melons”

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 16, 200912 Comments Guest

Being unable to lift you Being so rounded and so full I sure cannot eat you whole So I go from piece to piece I discard your black clothing And how you’re fleshy inside I take …

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Say Hello to My “little” Friend

Say Hello to My “little” Friend

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 10, 20098 Comments Malaka

There comes a point in every relationship when you have to introduce a third party to spice things up. For some of the more freakier people out there (okay, lets not judge them; lets call them …

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Cunninglus or Getting to know yourself

Cunninglus or Getting to know yourself

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 9, 200912 Comments Nana Darkoa

A lady brought some second hand books to my office to sell. She had been there previously to sell books and I wasn’t interested in anything she had at the time. So I told her my …

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Fantasising: Sick or not?

Fantasising: Sick or not?

In General IssuesPublish DateMarch 29, 200945 Comments Nana Darkoa

My last post has had one of the fewest responses ever…it took over a week to get a second comment (and what a great comment that was). I was speaking to Mr L during the week …

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Guest Blogger Ms Money Penny: Love your body and have great sex!

Guest Blogger Ms Money Penny: Love your body and have great sex!

In General IssuesPublish DateMarch 14, 20094 Comments Guest

The quality of sex you have with your lover/partner can be greatly improved by the amount of self confidence you have which comes from amongst other things, loving your body. I personally can share a few …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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