I looked around the kitchen and surveyed my handiwork. The onions were finely minced. The pepper ground into a smooth, ochre paste. The flowers on the dining room table had plenty of water in that expensive …
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For reasons, reason knows nothing of I have taken a strong liking to you. I swoon over you with reckless abandon. Hypnotic thoughts of you are a torment. Your friends, your family, Your hobbies, your sexual …
1. 25 September 2016 Dear K., I made many mistakes with you, I realise that now. Chief of them was assuming that you were exactly like me, just because you were happy to leave with me …
Hey there, Adventurers! You’ve been wondering all week what we’ve had up our sleeves, and your patience has been rewarded. See? Good things DO come to those who wait. 😉 The next stop on our sexy, …
Over the past few months, Malaka, I and our friends at HOLAA! have been working with a talented artist (spoiler: my partner) to create an amazing set of illustrations depicting African women’s diverse sexualities. We are …
I am sexually sad. I have watched so much porn recently that at one point I genuinely contemplated the idea that someone had bewitched me. I had my suspicions too. Not too long ago an angry …
I was deep in thought wondering how the people in this village in Ndaragwa, Nyahururu felt about having a castle rudely thrust onto them by their wealthy neighbour, when I saw her walk towards me. “May …
One of my pet peeves is when authors skim over details in describing sex. When the act of two or more people fucking, making love, being intimate is glossed over or merely implied. I recognise that …
This morning started out like any other Saturday. See, as a full time working mother, Saturdays are usually super busy. It’s the day I get to “do the yoga” in the morning, grocery shopping, take the …
What makes you a woman? What circumstances need to exist in your life to feel as though you’ve earned the title and trappings of womanhood? I ask because there has been a longtime conversation raging in …