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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

Tag: Dating

The Blues of Dating While Cohabiting With Family

In General IssuesPublish DateJune 21, 2022Leave a comment Makgosi

My baby brother and I  I’ve been struggling to write this because he is such a private person, but he’s featured enough in my tweets and other social media to not be a stranger to anyone who follows my work.  I’m 12 years older than him, and by virtue of being the first-born girl  – and the only girl – his birth transformed my life from carefree days to a nanny, literally overnight. He arrived at a bad time in …

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Is getting your swirl on selling out?

Is getting your swirl on selling out?

In VLOGSPublish DateNovember 21, 2018Leave a comment Nana Darkoa

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Can you find love online or is it all cyber sex?

Can you find love online or is it all cyber sex?

In VLOGSPublish DateNovember 19, 2018Leave a comment Nana Darkoa

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BDSM…Dare to Venture by Guest Contributor Aunt Andre

BDSM…Dare to Venture by Guest Contributor Aunt Andre

In Erotica, General Issues, Relationships, Sex ResearchPublish DateMarch 31, 20155 Comments Adventures Staff

I had never really thought about BDSM until I decided to actively read about it. I always felt there was something unexplored there. I knew I loved vanilla spanking and choking but I was never fully …

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On dating, and writing about sex

On dating, and writing about sex

In General IssuesPublish DateMarch 30, 201513 Comments Nana Darkoa

One of my goals this year is to date. Like seriously date. To the point where I can say, “x is my partner”. It’s hard for me to explain why I think I should make a …

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Mandy’s Delight (I) by Guest Contributor Pamm

Mandy’s Delight (I) by Guest Contributor Pamm

In Erotica, Fiction, Heterosexual, RelationshipsPublish DateFebruary 20, 20157 Comments Adventures Staff

The house was awfully quiet for a Friday. Usually Mandy would be watching some ridiculous show and laughing her ass off. Idris locked the door behind him and made his way upstairs. Soon as he entered the …

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‘Orgasms or Bust’ by Guest Contributor Double Aunt Andre

‘Orgasms or Bust’ by Guest Contributor Double Aunt Andre

In Bisexual, Heterosexual, Lesbian, RelationshipsPublish DateFebruary 12, 20158 Comments Adventures Staff

Top 5 things that run through my mind during sex (if I think them all simultaneously, it’s really bad): (He is going down on me) Why does this remind me of a carwash every time? They …

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New African Romance Imprint Ankara Press Releases Steamy Romance THE ELEVATOR KISS by Guest Contributor Amina Thula

New African Romance Imprint Ankara Press Releases Steamy Romance THE ELEVATOR KISS by Guest Contributor Amina Thula

In Fiction, General Issues, Heterosexual, RelationshipsPublish DateJanuary 26, 2015Leave a comment Adventures Staff

From Lagos to Cape Town, follow six romantic tales of six young, spirited and independent women as they carve out their lives and fall in love with handsome, confident and emotionally expressive men who welcome their …

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Ask Adventurers: Why is it so hard for a lesbian to date in Accra?

Ask Adventurers: Why is it so hard for a lesbian to date in Accra?

In Lesbian, RelationshipsPublish DateMay 9, 201424 Comments Nana Darkoa

Hi Adventurers, this is a short query from a reader. I’m hoping you can help her and offer some tips and advice. Over to you: “I’m 25 years and a lesbian. and i was wondering if …

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Did you miss our ‘Dating in An African City’ Hang Out?

Did you miss our ‘Dating in An African City’ Hang Out?

In General IssuesPublish DateMarch 29, 2014Leave a comment Malaka

Did you miss this month’s Hang Out live on air? Don’t worry! We are here for you. Go ahead and press “play” to see the hilarious, serious and unscripted moments with Mac Jordan, Esosa E and …

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Natural Selection

Natural Selection

In FictionPublish DateNovember 21, 201321 Comments Malaka

Miguel clasped his palms around the mug of hot tea and cast a furtive glance towards the kitchen. Jasmine was bending over the stove, delicately pulling out a tray of sweet rolls she had kneaded and …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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    by aqstudiosafrica on November 20, 2023 at 3:16 pm

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"Of course I'm not ashamed of you  Ohene."

After Selorm finally posts a photo of her and her partner, she's woken up by a very hurt Ohene, who cannot understand her aversion to post each other. All that's needed is an open honest discussion.

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"Of course I`m not ashamed of you Ohene."

After Selorm finally posts a photo of her and her partner, she`s woken up by a very hurt Ohene, who cannot understand her aversion to post each other. All that`s needed is an open honest discussion.

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Why do we never see fat asian women?

Obviously overweight Asian women DO exist, but Nobuhle recalls a moment that made her realise just how underrepresented they are - to the point where we as foreigners sometimes have to ask, "Do fat asian women exist?".

Check out The Fat and Horny Podcast by @becomingubu  on Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts.

Why do we never see fat asian women?

Obviously overweight Asian women DO exist, but Nobuhle recalls a moment that made her realise just how underrepresented they are - to the point where we as foreigners sometimes have to ask, "Do fat asian women exist?".

Check out The Fat and Horny Podcast by @becomingubu on Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts.
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"You know what’s funny but dangerously 
not funny?"

When you have been raised by people who know only childbearing as their calling, you can see how any slight debate may turn you into an Outlaw.

Click the links in our stories and bio to read Outlaws; a poem from Highest Kite's Rebel series!

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"You know what’s funny but dangerously
not funny?"

When you have been raised by people who know only childbearing as their calling, you can see how any slight debate may turn you into an Outlaw.

Click the links in our stories and bio to read Outlaws; a poem from Highest Kite`s Rebel series!

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"Make that baby ✨️SHINE!✨️"

You heard Guncle. Put a bow and some glitter on it, foolish boy.

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"Make that baby ✨️SHINE!✨️"

You heard Guncle. Put a bow and some glitter on it, foolish boy.

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"Once upon a time, we all had dreams."

Life changes very quickly and can make it difficult to hold onto the carefree and exciteable nature you had once entered the world with. But you can always find that love and pride once again.

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"Once upon a time, we all had dreams."

Life changes very quickly and can make it difficult to hold onto the carefree and exciteable nature you had once entered the world with. But you can always find that love and pride once again.

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"My mama taught me never to complain or talk back to a man."
When you've been taught to accept abuse since before you learned your name, will you ever reach a point where the abuse finally becomes unacceptable?

Click the link in our stories and bio to read RAMATU'S DREAM (PART 1) now!

"My mama taught me never to complain or talk back to a man."
When you`ve been taught to accept abuse since before you learned your name, will you ever reach a point where the abuse finally becomes unacceptable?

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"whatever

My face is wet

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My heart is heavy

  whatever"

"Always I Sing" is a poem from the ‘Rebel’ series Written by Highest Kite.

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"whatever

My face is wet

whatever

My heart is heavy

whatever"

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Cockypops. What more needs to be said?

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Cockypops. What more needs to be said?

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"However, as the week winds down I begin to experience a different kinda throbbing."

With nothing but exhaustion seeping into your very bones day after day, sometimes all one needs is a little solo action to relieve the stress.

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"However, as the week winds down I begin to experience a different kinda throbbing."

With nothing but exhaustion seeping into your very bones day after day, sometimes all one needs is a little solo action to relieve the stress.

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Facesitting fears as a fat woman
From Episode 5: Accepting my fatness helped improve my sex life.

Check out The Fat and Horny Podcast (by @becomingubu ) on Spotify, Apple or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Facesitting fears as a fat woman
From Episode 5: Accepting my fatness helped improve my sex life.

Check out The Fat and Horny Podcast (by @becomingubu ) on Spotify, Apple or wherever you get your podcasts.

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