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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

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Pleasure PhD_ Sensory exploration….Taste & Smell

In The Politricks of Fuck YouPublish DateAugust 30, 2023Leave a comment Ami Tamakloe

“Can I get your back?” They ask.  You gleefully oblige, handing them the jar of shea butter.  Kissing your neck, they warm the butter between their palms and when they settle those palms on your back, it feels like moisturization and love.  They bend and go beyond your back to spread the extra shea butter around your hips. Bending over gently, they kiss the small of your back. You sit in front of your dressing mirror, teacup in hand, covered …

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Why I Love to Sleep

Why I Love to Sleep

In General IssuesPublish DateJuly 31, 2023Leave a comment A. Duchess

I wake up each day with a smile on my face, Until I remember the dilemma I face. Each day that I have to pretend I’m straight, pushes me further into a depressive state. It’s not …

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I Unlearned Sexual Purity And Took Control Of My Pleasure

I Unlearned Sexual Purity And Took Control Of My Pleasure

In General IssuesPublish DateOctober 13, 20222 Comments Guest

Written by Bùnmi. The first time I felt shame about the fact that I masturbate is when I heard a group of pastors that came to my secondary school to evangelize condemn it as a sin. …

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The Bondage of Brassières

The Bondage of Brassières

In General IssuesPublish DateOctober 10, 2022Leave a comment Delasi Sanenu

If this world made sense, I’d probably always walk around without a shirt. I’ve known this since I was old enough to take off my own clothes. I enjoy the feel of my skin against my …

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Maintaining Safety in non-monogamous relationships

Maintaining Safety in non-monogamous relationships

In General Issues, Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateOctober 5, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

  Like with any relationship, monogamous or not, safety is a big thing that needs careful attention and thought. The responsibility to maintain safety increases when you are intimately involved with more than one person; simply …

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I’m Sorry Your Dick Game Is Whack: A Vagina Monologue

I’m Sorry Your Dick Game Is Whack: A Vagina Monologue

In General IssuesPublish DateAugust 26, 20221 Comment Guest

Written by Miss Kay You are probably wondering why I ghosted. Well, you had it coming. I did not know how to say this without hurting your feelings. But, here is why I left. When we …

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Daddy Issues (Part 2): The Oedipus Complex

Daddy Issues (Part 2): The Oedipus Complex

In General IssuesPublish DateAugust 24, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

I am almost running to my place when I get off the train, hoping my housemates are home to help me unpack the dilemma I am in. I am not naïve enough to think Prof had …

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The Dic-Appointment

The Dic-Appointment

In General IssuesPublish DateAugust 23, 20225 Comments Guest

Written by Nina I was high that day and extremely horny, so I decided to call him. He picked at the 3rd ring. “Hello?”  I don’t know what I expected, but he didn’t sound even the …

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Daddy Issues (I)

Daddy Issues (I)

In General IssuesPublish DateAugust 17, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

“I hate this bureaucratic shit.” The woman in the booth next to me turns her face towards me in reaction. Embarrassed, I turned my body inwards and away from her, wondering how long I’d been talking …

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Everything I Want To Say To Her

Everything I Want To Say To Her

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 30, 2022Leave a comment Naba the F*cking Goddess

You make me want to be brave. Brave like – Let’s fuck-this-shit snap and fall in love with each other. I need to pause now to let the fear wash all over me. Fall in Love …

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Don’t sex the ex: Nana D’s rules for breaking up and staying apart

Don’t sex the ex: Nana D’s rules for breaking up and staying apart

In Creative Non FictionPublish DateJuly 21, 201813 Comments Nana Darkoa

Just over two months ago, my three-year-old relationship came to an end. Or more accurately, I ended the partnership I had been in. It wasn’t an easy decision to make. We had been planning a future …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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  1. Anon on My Unsolicited Soliloquy on Self-Discovery As A Feminist African WomanJune 25, 2025

    Highly highly relatable. Im in my 40s and still trying to recover.

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