Written by Mariam Pleasure is what we live for, whether we know it or not. And pleasure is deeply connected to sex. As a woman, sexual health is beyond sex itself; it is the moment of physical, emotional, mental, and social well-being with your sexuality. This is why we must learn about our bodies, about sex, and how to embrace our desires without fear. Life would be so different, wouldn’t it? Sex is a basic need, like water and air, …
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Squirting: What’s all the hype? Thank the pleasure gods that for the last few decades, the myth on female orgasms has been dispelled! The conversations now are moving towards exploring the pleasure potential of female-bodied people …
At home, I treat myself to a glass of pinotage, a springbok carpaccio and avo salad. I giggle at the subconscious choice to have a light meal, something I would usually do if I had reason …
“I can’t marry you.” Those were the words that kept ringing in my head ever since he said them to me. My relationship of 3 years ended months ago and while everyone is talking about how …
This weekend is for Babe. It’s the first time we’re seeing each other since the phone call episode. After exchanging I miss you’s and hugs, he gets in the shower, gets out, we eat and talk …
Whenever I introduce myself I always say, “I’m a disabled sex worker and a reluctant activist, a mom, and an entrepreneur”. It’s a lot of hats to wear, all with different reactions and expectations. When somebody …
The tears fell down. They fell down onto his bare torso. You see, I was on top of him, riding him like a horse in full gallop; my naked breasts jiggling to the rhythm I had …
It was late when he first messaged me online. I was drunk and horny, and his tweets were clever. A girl can only take so much. He was funny in the messages too. Not hilarious, but …
Death is… La petite mort. The little death. Sensations deep within me. Clenched muscles… A quickening of breath. Death is… Pleasure New bodies, new textures, new flavors. Death is… A renewal amongst lovers. Death is… Being …
Once again we found ourselves just inches off Osu’s one-way streets at our usual Attiéké location where three entrepreneurial Francophone ladies has set up their business. Selling Attiéké (akin to moist gari), complemented with avocado, fish, …
So you are with someone who totally digs you, Who has that mental stimulation you crave in a partner, Who makes you feel like you are royalty each time. So you are with someone whose company …