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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

Tag: Relationships

Ask Adventurers: Why is it so hard for a lesbian to date in Accra?

Ask Adventurers: Why is it so hard for a lesbian to date in Accra?

In Lesbian, RelationshipsPublish DateMay 9, 201424 Comments Nana Darkoa

Hi Adventurers, this is a short query from a reader. I’m hoping you can help her and offer some tips and advice. Over to you: “I’m 25 years and a lesbian. and i was wondering if …

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‘I never came with you…’ by Guest Contributor Nkatiecake

‘I never came with you…’ by Guest Contributor Nkatiecake

In LesbianPublish DateFebruary 20, 20145 Comments Guest

I never came with you So I’m gonna go You never waved in the way you moved even when I showed you how to sway your waist your hands were upset that I asked for fast …

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Why modern African women choose to be single

Why modern African women choose to be single

In General IssuesPublish DateJanuary 30, 2014Leave a comment Nana Darkoa

I had a bit of a Eureka moment a few days ago after reading a post written by Afua over at Rambling Roommates. I’ve said to her (and numerous other sisters who’ve sought my advise about …

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“I Don’t Do Couples” by Guest Contributor Eli Tetteh

In RelationshipsPublish DateDecember 15, 201316 Comments Guest

“No man is an island,” or so we’re told. And yet, something about couples, that two-for-one unit we humans are so wedded to… something about it lends itself to isolation. Once folks pair up, they have …

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When is a relationship a RELATIONSHIP?

When is a relationship a RELATIONSHIP?

In RelationshipsPublish DateJuly 15, 20139 Comments Nana Darkoa

I’m not in a relationship Adebayo you are in a relationship I am telling you that I’m single You’re not single Nana am I married? I’m single Ah, how can you say you’re single? You’ve been …

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Guest Contributor Saffron & Lace: “Morning (and days) after that night before”

Guest Contributor Saffron & Lace: “Morning (and days) after that night before”

In Fiction, RelationshipsPublish DateMarch 11, 20137 Comments Guest

PART ONE First times and introductions The first time we met I was surprised, I expected my supervisor to be older with salt and pepper hair – our line of work doesn’t attract younger John Wayne …

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Guest Contributor Lois Lagos: I want multiple partners…

Guest Contributor Lois Lagos: I want multiple partners…

In RelationshipsPublish DateDecember 16, 201256 Comments Guest

I’ve recently found myself questioning my desire to have multiple sexual partners. I have always been monogamous even when I’m with a casual sexual partner as with my current situation. He is great in bed…exceptionally open …

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Miss me?

Miss me?

In Creative Non FictionPublish DateNovember 25, 201219 Comments Nana Darkoa

You haven’t told me that you miss me The fact that I haven’t told you that I miss you, doesn’t mean I don’t miss you So why don’t you tell me? What’s the point of me …

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‘Sex in Utopia’ my article in ‘BBC Focus on Africa Magazine

‘Sex in Utopia’ my article in ‘BBC Focus on Africa Magazine

In General IssuesPublish DateNovember 4, 20124 Comments Nana Darkoa

‘Sex in Utopia’ is the title of an article I have in the current edition (October – December 2012) edition of the BBC Focus on Africa magazine. Grab a copy and let me know your thoughts… …

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The relationship between power and sex is most evident to me when…

The relationship between power and sex is most evident to me when…

In General IssuesPublish DateOctober 11, 20125 Comments Nana Darkoa

I’m sharing another writing exercise my Fab Fem group did a while ago. Why don’t you share your own response. “The relationship between power and sex is most evident to you when…” Send me your post …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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