Okay it happened, on my birthday *which is why I no fit forget am; imagine, my birthday *smh. Anyway we planned the day carefully, luxurious 4-star hotel, Chinese food, dancing and hot sex after it all. We got to the hotel, booked into one of their suites and started pre smooching. Got over a nice quickie then started getting ready for dinner at the restaurant. The evening went so well, I didn’t dance as much as I wanted because he was horny ...  [Read more]

‘I love women, they do things to me’. Truer words were never spoken. 'What do women do in bed? Doesn't it get boring?’ Senseless questions that need a sensual answer. How can you not quiver when you think of all the things a woman can do? How can you not want to spend that extra moment of longing whilst you think and imagine the tastes and sounds and visuals that come with two women clutching, writhing, moaning, scratching, ...  [Read more]

So roots4life’s piece on moaning appeared right after an interesting experience I had a few weekends ago. I wanted to spice things up a bit, so my boyfriend and I spent the weekend in a hotel. We had already had sex twice before we left to go check in. He had come over for a visit and I wanted his opinion on something I was going to wear out with friends that night. As soon as I put the outfit on he ordered me to leave it exactly as it was and ...  [Read more]

He must have gone home with my scent on his fingers. We sat in the front of his car and kissed. I hate kissing but I love kissing him. He tried putting his hands up my slit but in my figure hugging fish tail slit that was an impossible task. Where's your zip? I unclasped the hook and eye that held my skirt together and unzipped my skirt. He put his hand down my skirt... You're wet for me. In my mind I thought, "I could get wetter still". ...  [Read more]

Sometimes I really want to let myself go. Sometimes I want a partner who brings out my inner freak. I want to touch myself, record myself cumming and send the voice note to my partner. I want someone who will dominate me in the bedroom, encourage me to push my sexual boundaries yet know what my limits are. I want someone who will touch me all over. Kiss me all over. Run his fingers over my body. Play with my public hair. Touch me all the way ...  [Read more]

I just listened to the late Kodjo Acquaye’s track with all that moaning by a woman in it, and thought of seeking opinions on this issue. Well, it is almost inevitable for a young growing boy to take sneak peeks of porn with friends. Most teenagers are initiated into the world of sex via porn. As such, most young males would live their lives expecting that everything about sex should be just as it appears in porn flicks. For a bout of sex ...  [Read more]

Kojo: You're usually first to cum, aren't you? Nana Darkoa: Where is this coming from? Kojo: Oh oh! Nana Darkoa::). Why 'oh oh'? I'm curious about the genesis of the question Kojo:Eish, the genesis of the question paa! Nana Darkoa: :). Kojo: Oh oh because I have stirred the hornets nest. Nana Darkoa: Which hornet? Nana Darkoa: You haven't stirred anything at all o Nana Darkoa: I'm merely curious what makes you ...  [Read more]

A few weeks ago one of the regular 'commenters' on this blog brought my attention to a particular conundrum. How can a man tell if a woman's had an orgasm? Short of asking her of course which can sometimes come across as a bit gauche. True, I thought, 'how can a man tell if a woman has climaxed?', not everyone comes loudly (in fact I'm willing to bet that the majority of women come fairly quietly). This question then made me think 'What if all ...  [Read more]

I spent a lot of time last week thinking about orgasms. Specifically I found myself thinking, ‘what does it take to have a “mind blowing orgasm”. I love that phrase, “mind blowing orgasm”. It reminds me of a dear friend who one described sex between herself and a boyfriend as ‘mind blowing’. My mind was blown at that description. Wow! Sex could be mind-blowing? I guess I wasn’t having mind-blowing sex at that time… So the ...  [Read more]