Written by Chipo Kay Firstly I would like to express my gratitude for you making it this far. Many tried and failed. As you had already said, it is not easy to finally get inside my house, metaphorically and practically. I am very careful when it comes to filtering access to my haven. A place where I facilitate pleasure. I have to make sure everyone in there not just deserves it, but earns it. There is no right to entitlement …
Tag: orgasms
There is a ton of material out there that advocates for the use of pleasure products and toys, and how instrumental they can be in the journey of exploring pleasure. Toys have empowered a lot of …
A decade ago, Nana Darkoa wrote ‘How can you tell when a woman orgasms?’ for the Adventures blog. It remains one of the most popular posts to date. So, in this episode, Nana and Malaka dig …
Let’s face it: We’re not living in the sexiest of times, are we? The pandemic aside, the daily news cycle is so bizarre that the average story reads like it was lifted from The Onion; global …
This is centred around women who primarily partner with men. This does not include the role of sex work at this time. I will not attempt to define sex positivity not only because I do not …
I happened upon #WeMustKunyaza today in Twitter, and I don’t think my life will be the same from today forward. If you are one of the millions of unfortunate women for whom ultimate pleasure has eluded …
Mudiwa and I stood face to face in our room as we started kissing each other. He kissed me slowly and grabbed the back of my neck and squeezed it as he kissed me harder this …
My boyfriend is a very giving and attentive lover. He uses sex to express things that he sometimes has trouble saying out loud. Like before he told me he was falling in love with me his …
I spent a lot of time last week thinking about orgasms. Specifically I found myself thinking, ‘what does it take to have a “mind blowing orgasm”. I love that phrase, “mind blowing orgasm”. It reminds me …
A reader of this blog asked me ‘So, how did you get so confident?’. I guess what she really meant was, how did you become so bold in writing about sex? The fact is, I don’t …