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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

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You will remain single forever

In AbstinencePublish DateJune 20, 20251 Comment Guest

Written by T.O. When I decided to become celibate, it was simply because my PCOS had been driving me crazy in my relationship at the time. I had just been diagnosed, and I would have crazy symptoms accompanied by intermittent bleeding episodes that showed up like bad weather with no warning. And when my period finally came, she would take her precious time and could sometimes last as long as three months.  Imagine trying to be intimate or sexual with …

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How Do I? by Guest Contributor UgandanChic

How Do I? by Guest Contributor UgandanChic

In Abstinence, Fiction, General Issues, Heterosexual, RelationshipsPublish DateJune 20, 20154 Comments Adventures Staff

“…that’s why I can’t date a girl who doesn’t blow.” I looked up from my phone, I had zoned out as soon as we had said ‘hullo’ and gotten lost on my twitter. This was the …

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The Playful ‘Cousin’ I by Guest Contributor ASQ

The Playful ‘Cousin’ I by Guest Contributor ASQ

In Abstinence, General Issues, Heterosexual, UnderagePublish DateJanuary 6, 201514 Comments Adventures Staff

When I was a kid, I was physically more developed at a younger age than most of the kids in my classroom and my year group. By age 10, I was already 5’2″ and had started …

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Church ruining your sex life?

In Abstinence, Creative Non Fiction, General Issues, Heterosexual, Lesbian, RelationshipsPublish DateMarch 18, 2014Leave a comment Ekuba

  A woman being taken through an “intense” deliverance session   Hi Adventurers! I’m back with a bounce and the countdown to the launch of the ‘Sex and the Church’ blog series has began!  The series …

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‘Shall I remain a virgin?’ asks guest contributor Eleanor T.K.

‘Shall I remain a virgin?’ asks guest contributor Eleanor T.K.

In Abstinence, General IssuesPublish DateJanuary 12, 20149 Comments Guest

Till this day I can hold a book (whether novel or guide) or a movie (be it a romantic comedy or those XXX demos) as responsible for most of what I know on the topic of …

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Should kids have sex?

Should kids have sex?

In Abstinence, General Issues, Sex EducationPublish DateJuly 31, 201325 Comments Ekuba

Hi Adventurers, there’s a question that’s been niggling me all week and I wanted to ask you guys . How early is too early for kids to have sex & what age is it appropriate for people …

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Secondary Virginity

Secondary Virginity

In Abstinence, General IssuesPublish DateMay 5, 201332 Comments Ekuba

  When I woke up this morning, I knew that I was going to give celibacy another try. That’s how I make all my major decisions you know- I mull over it for weeks, months even. …

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The Reluctant Celibate

The Reluctant Celibate

In AbstinencePublish DateJune 25, 20095 Comments Nana Darkoa

I am no fan of abstinence although I completely understand the reasons why so many of my sisters (yes I am excluding the brothers) strive to abstain from sex. I have heard the arguments in favour …

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Guest Contributor Ms A on Celibacy, Temptation and Sex

Guest Contributor Ms A on Celibacy, Temptation and Sex

In AbstinencePublish DateMay 14, 20097 Comments Nana Darkoa

It’s been four months, one week and two days. I’ve been craving, having vivid dreams, praying, begging God to make the months move a little faster. God, has it only been four months, one week and …

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Abstinence in a sex obsessed world?

Abstinence in a sex obsessed world?

In AbstinencePublish DateApril 1, 200911 Comments Nana Darkoa

A post on abstinence on a blog that seeks to provide a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more… Well, why not? When I read the request to write a post on abstinence …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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  1. R.R. on “I waited until 30 to have sex and I have some things to share…”July 4, 2025

    What I remember of my first time was that it shouldn’t have been him. It was one of the worst…

  2. Anon on My Unsolicited Soliloquy on Self-Discovery As A Feminist African WomanJune 25, 2025

    Highly highly relatable. Im in my 40s and still trying to recover.

  3. Amakason on You will remain single foreverJune 24, 2025

    This was such an honest and beautiful read. I can relate to you story. Men ehhh. God abeg

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    I love this. Daughters are forced into responsibility and I'm not for it. I don't like cooking and I want…

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    Thank you so much Mercy!

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