We are never taught how to have great sex nor how to enjoy it. Our aunties, who are supposedly the sex gurus of our lives, will only talk about what to do and how to please …
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In my Google notes, there is a list of things I plan to do with my partner, as this is the first beyond-one-year relationship I have had. I have a folder of our memories; screenshots from …
I have no shame. Call me shameless, unashamed. Also slut, whore, bitch. That’s what the patriarchy calls us when we dare to be unashamed. Well, I wear all those titles proudly. It took a lot to …
Femme Is Not Synonymous With Woman – Portrait by Billy Hani Andrew: “I am a femme non-binary activist living in Kenya. Being femme for me is powerful. It gives me a space to be flexible and …
Here’s to the great ones The ones who dare The ones who choose brave The ones who say to fear, “If you’re not ready to leave yet, sit in the corner and shut up, because i’m …
When I was growing up my mother used to tell me that she was saving up money so that when she gets to her retirement age, she can have herself moved into an old age home …
I need to buy a new nightdress. The one I’ve been wearing is torn all the way down the armpit and around the neck. It’s an old nightdress so it’s paid its dues, so to speak. …
Freedom is- Transgression Break every rule there is! Take back every part of yourself Defy, disobey, disrupt! Freedom is risk- Make them uncomfortable Make them show themselves Make them pick a side Take of their masks …
You make me want to be brave. Brave like – Let’s fuck-this-shit snap and fall in love with each other. I need to pause now to let the fear wash all over me. Fall in Love …
In 2021, Nana Darkoa and I were brainstorming over how we could expand the ways in which we use this platform to amplify the amazing voices and work of African women, feminists and activists. “I know!” …