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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

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My Dream Relationship

My Dream Relationship

In RelationshipsPublish DateJuly 26, 20097 Comments Nana Darkoa

My dream man will be a feminist. This means he loves women completely and utterly. He has not bought into narrow minded definitions of “womanhood” and thinks a good woman wakes up at 4am to make …

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Long Distance Relationships: What’s the Point?

Long Distance Relationships: What’s the Point?

In RelationshipsPublish DateJuly 11, 200925 Comments Nana Darkoa

This post is for Miss Anonymous who wanted me to blog on long distance relationships I have to be honest. I do not get long distance relationships. Seriously, what is the point? Someone please tell me…I …

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My husband’s third leg

My husband’s third leg

In Heterosexual, RelationshipsPublish DateJuly 8, 20095 Comments Malaka

Perhaps I am biased, but I believe that African women have the best child rearing skills on the planet. Period. There is so much unrecognized and under-appreciated wisdom that our women employ in the running of …

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On Dating, Sex and Relationships: Younger Men versus Married Men

On Dating, Sex and Relationships: Younger Men versus Married Men

In RelationshipsPublish DateJune 5, 200915 Comments Nana Darkoa

“You shouldn’t have a problem” says a fairly new male acquaintance to me, “Where were you like a year ago?” We have been talking about relationships and sex…his assumption is that I’m an attractive woman and …

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Double standards around sexualities?

Double standards around sexualities?

In RelationshipsPublish DateMay 30, 200910 Comments Nana Darkoa

Are there double standards around men and women’s sexualities? How true is this in Ghana and Africa? Why do men cheat? Why do women cheat? How does society respond when a man cheats? How is this …

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Dating a sexuality blogger?

Dating a sexuality blogger?

In RelationshipsPublish DateMay 9, 200921 Comments Nana Darkoa

How soon shall I tell a guy (who is interested in me) that I blog about sex and sexuality? Sometimes the subject of blogging never comes up at all yet there have been three occasions where …

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He Killed Our Relationship with a Kiss

He Killed Our Relationship with a Kiss

In RelationshipsPublish DateApril 6, 200921 Comments Nana Darkoa

Arguably, one could say that many relationships are determined by that first kiss. I am of the opinion that a kiss, like a person’s eyes, is a window into that person’s soul. How does your man …

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Sex and your parents

Sex and your parents

In RelationshipsPublish DateMarch 30, 200910 Comments Nana Darkoa

I remember many years ago my friend telling me that she asked her Mum if she had ever given her Dad a blow job. Her Mum did not know what a blow job was so my …

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Great sex tips for people who are in Good Relationships

Great sex tips for people who are in Good Relationships

In Heterosexual, Lesbian, RelationshipsPublish DateFebruary 26, 20096 Comments Nana Darkoa

I am defining a “good” relationship as one in which both parties are happy and fulfilled. However being in a “good” relationship does not always guarantee a great sex life (although a great sex life might …

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Anatomy of a Break-up

Anatomy of a Break-up

In RelationshipsPublish DateFebruary 16, 20096 Comments Malaka

An integral part of any relationship is when it comes to an end…and yes, every relationship will end. Be it a one night shag-fest or the departure of souls after a long “ ‘til death do …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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  1. How Moms Are Using Cartoons and Nursery Rhymes To Break Sex Ed Taboos | Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women on Involving My Mother in My Relationship and Sex Life.August 10, 2025

    […] many Nigerian families, discussions about sex are often muted and shrouded in secrecy, deemed too sensitive for open dialogue.…

  2. Oladoyin on How Moms Are Using Cartoons and Nursery Rhymes To Break Sex Ed TaboosAugust 9, 2025

    This is extremely good and educative.

  3. Malaka on This Too Is MarriageAugust 6, 2025

    I absolutely loved this piece! This reminds me of those guys who request an open relationship/marriage and then discover that…

  4. Malaka on The InventionJuly 28, 2025

    "You don’t want to make me angry. The last time I was angry, I pushed someone and… I don’t want…

  5. R.R. on “I waited until 30 to have sex and I have some things to share…”July 4, 2025

    What I remember of my first time was that it shouldn’t have been him. It was one of the worst…

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