The thing about reading erotica when you’re single is that there’s no one to help you relieve the ensuing ache. I don’t know why I keep doing this to myself. It’s ten in the evening on a Friday night and I’m curled up on my couch reading erotica on my favourite website. I sigh and set my phone down. I need a drink. Perhaps, I should’ve gone to Kofi’s party after all. I hate parties though, and I think Kofi’s …
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Written by Bùnmi. The first time I felt shame about the fact that I masturbate is when I heard a group of pastors that came to my secondary school to evangelize condemn it as a sin. …
I was in my first year of university when I owned my first toy. I was always that girl everyone knew to be sex-positive, open and free about sexual health and pleasure. So when a classmate …
At home, I treat myself to a glass of pinotage, a springbok carpaccio and avo salad. I giggle at the subconscious choice to have a light meal, something I would usually do if I had reason …
There are a lot of weird nicknames for the hoo-ha. I don’t like to call mine ‘pussy’, I find ‘vajayjay’ hilarious and I don’t feel any connection with any of the other nicknames I found online. …
Many writers and artists, especially those who create in isolation that lasts for months if not years, have one tool at their disposal that’s often not talked about: making love to oneself. It is not about …
Years ago a “because of the D” challenge spread on social media with celebrities rapping about the craziest thing good dick had pushed them to do and the rest of social media chiming in too. I …
“Who’s fucking you?”… You…I say faintly… “What’s my name??” …”Essien”…I say breathlessly… “Say my name again”…He said stroking me deeper…”Fuck! Essien!”…I scream… With that, he pulled my arms back forcing my chest to arch and my …
Turn the lights down low Light some candles Deep red ones Mellow white ones Fill the room with your favourite scents The smell of passionfruit Of lavender Of rose Allow your sheets to caress you Allow …
Do you remember your first orgasm? What emotions did you feel? Mine was fear but I’m getting ahead of myself here. I was recently reminded of my very first orgasm and I’d like to share two …
I just realised that it’s #InternationalMasturbationDay and for a moment I was like, “Whoa! Is that how come I felt like touching myself this morning for the first time in months?” I woke up just before …