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Sex Toys: A Journey To Self-Pleasure, Intimacy and Sex

In General Issues, Sex Education, SexualityPublish DateJune 15, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

I was in my first year of university when I owned my first toy. I was always that girl everyone knew to be sex-positive, open and free about sexual health and pleasure. So when a classmate felt ashamed that her friends bought her a vibrator for her birthday, I was the first person she thought to give it to. And of course, I put it to good use! I had been sexually active for two or three years by then …

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Cumming Into Myself (II)

Cumming Into Myself (II)

In General Issues, Orgasms, SexualityPublish DateJune 9, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

At home, I treat myself to a glass of pinotage, a springbok carpaccio and avo salad. I giggle at the subconscious choice to have a light meal, something I would usually do if I had reason …

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The Dangers of Bad PR for Sex (2)

The Dangers of Bad PR for Sex (2)

In General Issues, SeriesPublish DateAugust 6, 2021Leave a comment Bilquis

There are a lot of weird nicknames for the hoo-ha. I don’t like to call mine ‘pussy’, I find ‘vajayjay’ hilarious and I don’t feel any connection with any of the other nicknames I found online. …

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The Art of Making Love to Yourself

The Art of Making Love to Yourself

In General IssuesPublish DateJune 3, 2021Leave a comment Guest

Many writers and artists, especially those who create in isolation that lasts for months if not years, have one tool at their disposal that’s often not talked about: making love to oneself. It is not about …

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The Wildest Thing I’ve Done For The “O”

The Wildest Thing I’ve Done For The “O”

In General IssuesPublish DateJanuary 26, 20212 Comments Guest

Years ago a “because of the D” challenge spread on social media with celebrities rapping about the craziest thing good dick had pushed them to do and the rest of social media chiming in too. I …

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Lockdown Thoughts by Jessica

Lockdown Thoughts by Jessica

In All Categories, General IssuesPublish DateApril 12, 20201 Comment Guest

“Who’s fucking you?”… You…I say faintly… “What’s my name??” …”Essien”…I say breathlessly… “Say my name again”…He said stroking me deeper…”Fuck! Essien!”…I scream… With that, he pulled my arms back forcing my chest to arch and my …

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Finding pleasure: a song or poem

Finding pleasure: a song or poem

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 17, 20184 Comments Nana Darkoa

Turn the lights down low Light some candles Deep red ones Mellow white ones Fill the room with your favourite scents The smell of passionfruit Of lavender Of rose Allow your sheets to caress you Allow …

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Catching my ‘squirt’ by Cosmic Yoruba

Catching my ‘squirt’ by Cosmic Yoruba

In Creative Non FictionPublish DateFebruary 10, 201717 Comments Nana Darkoa

Do you remember your first orgasm? What emotions did you feel? Mine was fear but I’m getting ahead of myself here. I was recently reminded of my very first orgasm and I’d like to share two …

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International Masturbation Day: Yippee I touched myself today

International Masturbation Day: Yippee I touched myself today

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 7, 20164 Comments Nana Darkoa

I just realised that it’s #InternationalMasturbationDay and for a moment I was like, “Whoa! Is that how come I felt like touching myself this morning for the first time in months?” I woke up just before …

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‘Body Rocking’ by Guest Contributor Nubian Beauty

‘Body Rocking’ by Guest Contributor Nubian Beauty

In General IssuesPublish DateMarch 30, 20144 Comments Guest

I wait for you Patiently, silently Willing the currents in my body To reach out and drown you Bring you to the depth of my warm slick core Wash over you with gentle loving Saying It’s …

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Guest Contributor Grace: Why do we accept mediocre sex?

Guest Contributor Grace: Why do we accept mediocre sex?

In General IssuesPublish DateSeptember 29, 201311 Comments Guest

Yesterday I was trying to set up a Facebook page for a local conversation on women and their personal sexual experiences and as I was looking for an appropriate picture for the profile, I came across …

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