I found my first Mills and Boon book at age eight. Someone had abandoned a bunch of dog-eared, moth-eaten, mouldy romance novels in a box in the corner of my house. When I landed upon them it was like I had completed my journey to the centre of the earth, chale. The men were always rich and handsome and damaged. The dating was always passionate. The sex was always hot. The women were always beautiful. The stories were always filled with longing ...  [Read more]

This is what he asked me as he traced the silky smoothness that had pooled beneath the bend of my knee and was dripping down the back of my calf. “Wet enough to make you feel like you could drown” I answered. “Wet enough to fill a bathtub so I can swim in it?” “I think so. But would you want to?” “I would. I would slather that pussy juice all over my body like lotion. Then I would lick it off every part of my body that ...  [Read more]

Malaka and I have decided to give over more control of this blog to some of the regular contributors who write such enjoyable pieces for 'Adventures' namely African Mami, Ekuba, Nnenna Marcia and Voluptous Voltarian. This is in the spirit of the blog being a space for African Women. Even though I do not know all these women personally (I only know one of the four listed) I can tell (or know from their posts) that they originate from English ...  [Read more]

When I started fucking a Ghanaian man the first thing that drove home for me that, individual differences aside, our sex life was a little bit different than it had been with my American ex was this: A few weeks into our super-active love life I looked down at my waist beads and realized they were all still intact. I was shocked. We had been having some vigorous and involved sex and my guy’s hands were usually wrapped around my waist or ...  [Read more]

So roots4life’s piece on moaning appeared right after an interesting experience I had a few weekends ago. I wanted to spice things up a bit, so my boyfriend and I spent the weekend in a hotel. We had already had sex twice before we left to go check in. He had come over for a visit and I wanted his opinion on something I was going to wear out with friends that night. As soon as I put the outfit on he ordered me to leave it exactly as it was and ...  [Read more]

My boyfriend and I have broken up. We broke my bed before we broke up. So now every time I sleep on it, and turn on my side in a particular direction, I get this vocal reminder of how well he used to rock my world. If I could change my bed I would, but I worry that then I would miss him and I wouldn’t even have this little reminder of the good times. He and I started as buddies. Somehow the fucking led to talking and then the talking led to ...  [Read more]

How does one cultivate a coticulturist? Are they born or created? I am not sure. I didn’t become a coticulturist because I was thinking about this stuff. You might say I started thinking about this stuff because  I was trying to understand my coticulturism. When I think back on it I do realize that I was never taught to think of dicks as something scary that would bite me. I was never taught to think of them as this thing that wanted ...  [Read more]

Small girl, you don’t know the ting. I am teaching you the ting. But you are playing with the ting... ¬Atumpan   In my opinion, the penis occupies this really fascinating place in social consciousness. It is virile. It is powerful. It is imposing. It is to be feared. It is positioned within society as this object that makes every human being who is born with it automatically superior. But it is also funny. It is used as a punch ...  [Read more]

I had a dream that I recently met a fellow coticulturist. She reached out to me after my ode to dicks and told me that she stays in the closet about her love for penises because loving penises is a delicate matter. I related to what she said. Loving penises is a delicate matter. You can’t talk too much about it because, once you do, people misinterpret your loving penises to mean that you desire every penis, interact with them all ...  [Read more]

Adventurers, is there anything you used to believe when you first started having sex that you now have a totally different frame of mind about? Anything you used to think was a “sure-banker” rule that you are now slightly embarrassed that you ever saw that way? What was it? Never giving blowjobs? Never doing doggy-style? Never letting yourself get sweaty during sex? Oh. You won’t tell me till I tell you mine? Fine. Sigh. Don’t laugh, but ...  [Read more]